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Nervous after giving oral

So, I know this question get's posted a lot. But i'm going to ask anyway.

So I've been in a committed relationship for close to 6 years now. My partner decided to go out of town and visit family, and I stayed home. I was feeling curious and I hooked up with a random guy, why? I don't know, I just did. We kissed for a bit, did quite a bit of body contact and we gave each other unprotected oral sex. He also just rubbed his penis against my anus a couple of times, but never went in. I'm very nervous and i'm a severe hypochondriac when it comes to these things. I'm not sure why I even did it, but I did. I'm just scared to think If i'm exposed to something. As I gave him oral, I felt no lesions or anything on him, and he was freshly showered.

I asked him if he was std clean, and said he was and that he get's tested yearly and he himself was in a relationship with his girlfriend.

Should I get tested? how long do symptons take to show up if I did contract something. Am I just freaking out?

Please any advice would be great.

Thanks!
scaredman
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Your risk was low and I would normally say no reason for testing but since you do have a gf it is better to be safe then sorry.

Testing times: gonorrhea and chlamydia-1 week
syphilis-6 weeks
herpes-3 months
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So should I refrain from having sex till I get tested? Because it would be suspicious. Especially since we have unprotected sex.

I'm just trying to be ok for the both of us.

Thank you,
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That is up to you. The risk is low, meaning you probably didn't get a STD, but still your call.
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Thank you,

I'll keep this updated, if I decide to go and get tested. I'll let you know.

thank you!
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Do you think its possible for someone to make themselves psychologically sick from being paranoid from fear of contracting something?
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Yes
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sir i am just married now and i want to do oral sex with my wife i am sure she is safe she dont have any sex before can you please tell me is it safe to suck her vagania she is nurse but she told me its not safe may be there is chance of getting infection . but i am sure she dont have any std do i get any other infection other than std due to sucking her vagania fluid . i want to make her full happy and also get full sanctification .
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