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Paranoid Or General Concern? (Chlamydia or Ghonarhea?)
Back story is married male 32 for 7 years. Marriage took a dark turn and were separated for a short time. During that time on Wednesday the 1st last week I visited an ex fling and ended up having un protected sex (vaginal). Saturday the 4th the wife wanted to come over and work on things after hours of discussion she wanted to stay the night. As a result of that we ended up having sex twice both vaginal and anal. The next morning paranoia kicked in and began to over analyze everything. Now the ex fling had just gotten out if jail of 22 months and said that she was tested while in and before being released (state procedure) and had not had sex since. Now for the stuff I'm over analyzing,
-later the night after the second time with my wife I noticed a little discomfort getting a urine flow started. No burn or anything.
-Next morning a tiny bit if discharge from my penis. No foul smell and when I say tiny like I would have to squeeze like I'm trying to force it out. Was more of a cream color. (This is where I panicked)
- same thing monday morning when I first woke up.
Heres the strange part nothing has come back since.
Now I feel like maybe I'm creating symptoms just from all the google reading. Mind you everything seems normal but no ever "tickle" or feeling gets my anxiety going.
Could there have been something from the anal sex that caused this? I'm assuming if it was chlamydia or something it wouldnt have been there 1 day and gone the next?
Would the time frame fit for something from the fling a few days prior or coincidence?
Any help is appreciated!
-later the night after the second time with my wife I noticed a little discomfort getting a urine flow started. No burn or anything.
-Next morning a tiny bit if discharge from my penis. No foul smell and when I say tiny like I would have to squeeze like I'm trying to force it out. Was more of a cream color. (This is where I panicked)
- same thing monday morning when I first woke up.
Heres the strange part nothing has come back since.
Now I feel like maybe I'm creating symptoms just from all the google reading. Mind you everything seems normal but no ever "tickle" or feeling gets my anxiety going.
Could there have been something from the anal sex that caused this? I'm assuming if it was chlamydia or something it wouldnt have been there 1 day and gone the next?
Would the time frame fit for something from the fling a few days prior or coincidence?
Any help is appreciated!
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Hi Its kinda hard to follow your post but bottom line is that if you used a condom with the ex fling nothing could get inside your urethra to cause any infection. I hope this answers your question.
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We did not.
You wouldn't have symptoms that fast from any STD. I can't say if it was from sex, but it's not from an STD.
It takes a minimum of 2 days to see symptoms of an STD, usually it's longer.
Since you had unprotected sex, you should test. She's probably low risk considering she was incarcerated, but how long had she been out? Do you know if she had been with anyone else since she's been out?
And you might want to consider social distancing. Covid is worse than most STDs.
It takes a minimum of 2 days to see symptoms of an STD, usually it's longer.
Since you had unprotected sex, you should test. She's probably low risk considering she was incarcerated, but how long had she been out? Do you know if she had been with anyone else since she's been out?
And you might want to consider social distancing. Covid is worse than most STDs.
Auntiejessi I'm glad you chimed in. Technically it was 3.5 days later. Still think it would be too soon?
No, that's not too soon. Since you had unprotected sex, you need to get tested.
Your symptoms are really vague, and are probably not from an STD, but from you really looking for things. However, I don't think you'll rest until you get tested. You have a lot at stake here, I know. Are any STD clinics open near you? You can test for gonorrhea, chlamydia and NGU now, and those are the most common.
I suspect they'll be negative, but I also suspect you'll drive yourself crazy until you test.
Your symptoms are really vague, and are probably not from an STD, but from you really looking for things. However, I don't think you'll rest until you get tested. You have a lot at stake here, I know. Are any STD clinics open near you? You can test for gonorrhea, chlamydia and NGU now, and those are the most common.
I suspect they'll be negative, but I also suspect you'll drive yourself crazy until you test.
Auntiejessi I think I'm going to make an appointment. I'm not a complete nervous wreck because I gotta imagine the discharge would be persistent and get worse and other symptoms would develop. Everything seems back to normal now.
I'm glad you aren't a nervous wreck. :)
I agree the symptoms would be more persistent, but I think it's a good idea to get checked. Let us know what happens.
I agree the symptoms would be more persistent, but I think it's a good idea to get checked. Let us know what happens.
Went this morning so we will see. They said 2 to 3 days.
Good for you. Let us know what the results say. Hang in there!
Well that was quick! Just got a call from the NP at the office who said they got the results back from quest and all is negative. Still leads me to wonder what would have caused the "symptoms" or if I was just making it up in my mind.
Also should clarify this was a simple urine sample test. Is this considered accurate enough to bank on?
A urine test only tests for gonorrhea, chlamydia and NGU. You can trust those results.
I don't know what caused your symptoms - no STD would give you symptoms that fast, but perhaps it was some anxiety or looking too closely for things.
I don't know what caused your symptoms - no STD would give you symptoms that fast, but perhaps it was some anxiety or looking too closely for things.
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