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REALLY WORRIED. PLEASE HELP

Dear Kind Sir and Madam,

I can see that this website is pretty knowledgeable when it comes to STDs. On Tuesday (2 days ago from today), I went to get a massage. Not a typical Asian Massage parlor. The place specializes in foot care such as nails, pedicures and foot spa. But they also offer a full body massage on the side and I've been seeing this Chinese lady for 3 occasions now. She's 26 years old and recently move here in the US. Unfortunately my 3rd time went wrong and a whole different direction. After couple times talking and flirting, we started making out and then she started giving me a blowj*b. After couple of sucking and licking my penis, since I never experienced a blowj*b, I am positive that after 1 minute or even less I started to ejaculate right away. Then after that she gave me a hot towel to clean up

I'm a 25 year old Asian Male who hasn't been sexually active for almost a year or two now, after my partner and I separated. As for the lady who gave me blow**b, according to her she's only been with 2 Men in her whole entire life.

Been checking my body especially penis for rashes. I got nothing. All I got is a itchy scrotum and crotch (I believe that the itchiness has been going on before this event). I got a little bit of joint pains and neck pain, not sure if its due to anxiety or lack of sleep. And today i got a little bit of a itchy throat

Even though she said that, I am still very worried because I still don't know if she is STD free or not. And the fact that she just move here from China makes me realize that I should be freaking out right now but I am keeping myself calm and stay positive. But I am still getting disturbed and crazily worried still that I probably got a STD from receiving an unprotected Blow*ob and even worse probably HIV. Please help. =( What are the chances of me getting a STD/HIV from from this event?
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I am not
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thank you. do you mind if i ask, are you a healthcare professional?
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No
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what i'm trying to saying is even though she said shes std free and only been with two men, wouldnt that place where she lives on the past has an affect on her health?
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Different Healthcare System. Different here in the US where people are more healthy compare to (no offense) other countries in the world.
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Throat has nothing to do with your penis.
Why would China make a difference if she has a STD?
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And even though she just move here from China. Would that make a difference?
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Right now.. Just at this moment, I am having sore throat. Is this due to worrying or a symptom of what I did 2 days ago?
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Your STD risk was low, overall I would not worry.
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