Hello I am a male and I received oral sex from a stripper about 3 months ago. I tested negative for everything including HIV at 5-6 weeks at the hospital so I assume it was all up to date lab testing. Anyways about 4 weeks after exposure I got A terrible cold and my body was aching for a few days. Now my wife(who is 9 months pregnant) has a terrible cold and aches very bad with swollen lymph nodes about 4 weeks after we had sex for the first time after my exposure 4 weeks earlier. I know HIV is tough to get from receiving a blow job but she did have a tongue ring. This has been a major cause of anxiety for me for 3 months now and I'm deathly worried I've passed something to my wife and she will pass it to our baby. So I guess how accurate are all my tests at 5-6 weeks and do I need to be worried or is this all just a coquincidence?