Risk of being contracted with STD

[bertocarlos]

Hi experts,

I'm a newbie here and worried of being infected with STD ie HIV, herpes, gonorrhea, syphilis etc.

I'm from Malaysia and I would much appreciate your help, at least to ease my mind a bit.

Last Friday, 26 February 2016, I went to a spa which offers traditional massage which I took and it ends with a "happy ending" (handjob). I feel really guilty about this.

these incidents happened:

1. She was fully cloth, but I was naked.
2. She rubbed my anus, not penetration, maybe at surface of it.
3. She rubbed my scrotum
4. She gave me a handjob and did rub tip of my penis.
5. I didn't see any sores or lesion on her hands due to bad lighting.
6. After 15-20mins handjob, I ejaculated.
7. My penis is fine, no pain, scratches or itchiness resulted from the handjob.

Based on these incidents, are there any chances that I might be contracted with STDs? Should I abstain myself from sex with my wife?

On my readings, some of STDs can be infected via skin-to-skin contact. :(

Please help! Thanks in advance!

[bertocarlos]

thank u kapster.

Is that will include herpes / gonorrhea / syphillis?

[kapster1978]

fleetwood20 is completely right!! Outside of body the virusses and bacteria will die almost immediatly!

[bertocarlos]

how about the skin to skin contact? ie. hand to genital.

What does it mean?

[Fleetwood20]

Yes, the hand does not realistically harbor any STD/STI to be rubbed into your penis! Also you have not experienced any symptoms.

Vaginal sex is required for practical risk of an STD/STI.

[bertocarlos]

Thank you Fleetwood20.

Any reason why you said so?

[Fleetwood20]

This is a zero risk event of any STD/STI.