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STD risk with condom use at an Asian massage parlor?

I went to an Asian massage parlor yesterday. The lady gave me a massage, jerked me off with some oil and then put a condom on me. I tried to put it in but got soft really fast and it didn't really go in (maybe 1-3 inches). I kept trying to put it in but it wouldn't go (maybe did a few pumps with 3 inches in). We decided to give up on sex since I couldn't stay hard and she jerked me off instead. We we're both wearing surgical masks the entire time and she even used a spray (antiseptic?) on my pelvic area before we attempted sex.
How worried should I be about STDs?
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There is no risk at all from the massage or handjob. In theory, there may be a very small risk from the attempted sex, but it's not enough of a risk that I'd worry about it at all.

You don't know what kind of spray she used on you? I hope it wasn't an antiseptic, or worse, something like bleach. If you get any irritation, it could be from the spray, and you'll think it's an STD.

Really, though, the chances of you getting anything are theoretical and very, very close to zero. I wouldn't bother to test, even if you do have a regular partner.
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My worry is not the handjob but the attempted sex since my pelvis area did come into contact with hers. I also entered her vagina (with a condom on) for a few pumps and only 1-3 inches in. Considering this should I be worried?
No, you had a condom on, so you're fine. In theory, there could be a risk for herpes, syphilis or HPV from your skin touching hers, but it sounds like it was very brief contact, not actual rubbing or grinding, so I wouldn't worry at all.

You're fine.
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