STD

[haiall]

Before two days I had protected sex with a sex worker. This is the first time I am having sex with a sex worker apart from my wife. I have never indulged in these kind of activity before. Before I had sex with her I checked for all possible signs and symptoms of STDs and could not see anything unusual in her genital area. I also asked her about her history for any diseases and she told she had not come across any sexual health issues and even showed her recent medical testing for HIV done and it was negative. It was a vaginal sex and we had it for a couple of minutes. She sat on me and the sex was over under two minutes. In between she applied a lubricant on to her vagina and during sex she touched me in my shoulder area.The whole time the condom was intact between me and her but after my ejaculation when she stood up from me I found the condom has come up little may be because of her standing up. Then I carefully removed the condom from my penis with a tissue paper and made sure that there was no physical contact between me and any of her body fluids. But when I was removing the condom, i could see a little may be of 1 or two drops of her fluid sticking on to my lap area. Once the sex was over I immediately washed my genital areas, lap completely with normal toilet soap and with after shave lotion just to prevent any infection. Throughout the course of sex I did not touch any of her body fluids with my hand except for the two drops sticking on to my lap. Please clear my following doubts.

1. Is there any chance for me to get the herpes transmission even though I could not see any possible signs. The sexual intercourse happened for under two minutes and there was no hard acts (which may cause skin cuts, irritations etc) involved. I did not touch any of her body fluids except for those two drops in my lap which was washed right away after the sex?

2. Should I get tested for any other STDs at the earliest?

3. Should I wait for any period of time before I have a normal sex life with my wife?

4. Can I pass any infection to my wife because of my onetime sexual encounter with a sex worker for under two minutes?

5. Should I wear a condom when having sex with my wife from now on wards to make sure that she does not contract any sexually transmitted infection from me?

6. Is this a thing which is to be worried too much and consulted with a medical practitioner immediately or am I over imagining things and get tensed?

Please help me out with my anxiety. Many thanks to these people for creating such a wonderful forum to clear the doubts and questions of many like me and many thanks once again.

[alexsp87]

1- The chances are very very low. Protected sex+no visible symptoms on her genitals makes the risk too low to worry about.
2- Unless you have symptoms (sores, discharges...) I wouldn't get tested, but maybe you would want to test to ease your mind.
3- This is a question I can't answer. The decision is up to you. I can tell that your risk was very very low but I can't assure you have nothing.
4- Yes you can. IF you had an infection you COULD pass it to her.
5- See 3. This a personal decision. I can give you a "risk assessment", then you have to make the decisions.
6- Your exposure was brief, protected, you saw no visible sypmtoms on her and when you asked her about STD's she told you she was clean (even she showed you recent tests). In my opinion the risk for skin-to-skin STD's (the only ones you could be worried about) are too low to be concerned,but I am not a test result and I cannot give you a 100% accurate answer.

[haiall]

Thanks for your reply to me. Your answers are convincing and ease my anxiety. I am not gona worry for this anymore and as you said rightly I am gona wait for some time just to make sure that there are no symptoms and no test is required then.