If you got an STD from licking your own semen, that would mean you already had an STD. Right? Let's think about that. This is a huge over reaction to something that makes no sense to worry about. No risk for licking your semen off of someone's hand.
You won't get anything from ingesting your own semen - and I absolutely agree that you need to talk to someone about your anxiety over this - but you had unprotected oral sex.
You can get genital hsv1 (if you don't have oral hsv1 already), syphilis, gonorrhea and NGU from receiving oral sex.
None of the symptoms you describe are symptoms of an STD. They are symptoms of anxiety and stress.
Symptoms of STDs are pain while urinating, discharge, sores on your genitals.
Since you are married, you'll want to test for gonorrhea and NGU, at least. Syphilis is fairly uncommon, and unless you get a sore, I wouldn't worry about it. You can get a urine test tomorrow for gonorrhea and NGU.
i am back here for the last couple of days i am feeling extremely sick
1. having sore throat
2. muscle pain around neck and back of tue head
3. pain in tummy
4. fever never goes down ( 37.5)
bonus point i went to the doctor and asked for an oral gonhorrea test i cannot beleive that the doctors are unaware of Oral gonhorrea in such a developed and advanced country
i have gone through a post on another forum that gonhorrea can be present in throat and also in curvix what so ever.
my question if i get tested for gonhorrea in general (i.e. blood test) would it detect the oral gonhorrea or there are different tests for detecting stds which can be present anywhere in the body ?
if you know anything please let me know i am living in Germany