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STI transmission from handjob/ fingering?

I ended up going to a strip club and hand a few drinks. I got a lap dance from one of the girls and one thing led to another. We went to the private room and she masturbated in front of me. She gave a handjob and spat on my penis a few times, she also kissed the tip of my penis. I fingered her and might have touched my penis with the same hand. She used the same hand she masturbated with to give me the handjob. I ejaculated and she cleaned me off. Am I at any risk of any time of STI/STD transmission?
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Nope, no risk at all.

Mutual masturbation - using hands on each other - never transmits STDs. I'll include some links at the end that may help.

Using saliva as lube isn't a risk, either. Even if she had any oral STDs, they either reside in the throat, so there wouldn't be enough bacteria to transmit anything in saliva unless your penis was in her throat.

STDs are transmitted by oral, vaginal or anal sex - either grinding with clothes off, or penetration. (Some are transmitted by direct skin to skin - mouth to genitals, genital to genital, genital to anal, and others require unprotected penetration. You had neither.)

Here are some posts from our experts (when we had them) that may help -

https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Nervous-about-mutual-masturbation/show/2183476

https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Mutual-Masturbation-STD/show/1968429

https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/mutual-masturbation-sti/show/1858544

https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Understanding-the-risks-of-mutual-fingering/show/1516796

https://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV---Prevention/Vaginal-fluid-on-hand-touched-inside-of-condom-and-head-of-penis/show/1119533 - read this thread thoroughly. There is an excellent explanation about why certain activities are not risks, and why others are.
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Thanks for all the information, I really appreciate it.
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