Sex at massage parlor

[CeeJayRos99]

Hello I went to a massage parlor expecting a massage but instead the lady started grabbing my penis right away and put on a condom (that she had inside her bra without even being in the wrapper) on my penis and started giving me head with the condom on then she asked if I wanted to have sex and said sure but like within a minute I pulled out of regret and worry have getting an std, so I was wondering how much at risk am I for hiv,herpes,gonorrohea, chlamdyia, or any other std

[DragonPulse]

As you had unprotected sex, even if it was brief, you've been exposed to a wide variety of STDs. My advice is to test as follows:

-3 weeks after the exposure, for gonorrhea and chlamydia.
-6 weeks after the exposure, for syphilis.
-3 months after the exposure, for herpes.

Regarding syphilis, if your test gives you a negative result, repeat it 3 months after exposure, as sometimes people infected with syphilis take longer to give a positive result.

Regarding HIV, the window period will be different depending on the kind of test you go for:

-If you go for a normal antibody test (finger-prick) it will be accurate 3 months after the exposure.
-If you go for a duo combo ag/ab test, it will be accurate 28 days after the exposure.

All the best.

[CeeJayRos99]

I didnt had unprotected sex, I had he condom on the whole time since she put it on w her mouth, then we had sex with the condom on for a short time

[auntiejessi]

With protected sex, you have very little to worry about. There is a chance you could be exposed to syphilis, herpes and HPV, but condoms reduce the risk of that by about 90%, and with such a brief encounter, I wouldn't worry at all.

[CeeJayRos99]

I only had sex for less then a minute because I knew it was risky, but in that minute does it decrease the chances of stds since I had a condom on and the exposure was for a small amount of time

[auntiejessi]

Yes, that's what I meant - since it was protected, and so brief, I don't think you have anything to worry about. I wouldn't even test if I were you.

[CeeJayRos99]

Would it be safe to have unprotected safe with someone I know doesn’t have an std

[auntiejessi]

Are you asking if you would infect someone? I'd say the chances are really good that you wouldn't, if all you are concerned about is this encounter. I wouldn't worry if it were me.