Hello, on Friday I had a poor lapse in judgement. I'm married with kids and love them dearly. I had gone out to the strop club with my friends, had way to much to drink and ended in the VIP room with a stripper. In the VIP room, the following happened. We made out, she gave me unprotected oral sex, I gave her unprotected oral sex, I inserted my fingers in her vagina and we had protected vaginal sex. 3 days post encounter I have no symptoms, I feel fine. My questions are the following:
1) what are the chances of getting stds/hiv or sti from this encounter.
2) I have 2 failed root canals with holes, from 3 years ago. Would my exposure go up from performing oral sex on the stripper? There was no blood, cuts or sores
3) should I get tested if I'm asymptomatic?
4) if I have to get tested, what's the time frame for hiv/stds?
This was my first sexual encounter outside my marriage and I definan don't want to pass anything along to her. I hate myself for doing this and won't be going to anymore strip clubs. I am having a lot of anxiety over this