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Sti risk from sex worker.
Hello, I have recently started seeing sex workers again, probably about 1 per month. I try my hardest not to have any form of insertive sex or oral although recently I have inserted my penis twice. 1 was about 3 weeks ago and the other was today.
The experience 3 weeks ago was general kissing and touching without condom, then the sex worker put a condom on and I inserted my penis in her vagina, I literally had an orgasm with 2 strokes and pulled it out. I showered and left.
The experience today was a little more risky I think, we kissed and touched each other, I tried to keep my pants on but the managed to come off and she gave me a brief hand job while I was fingering her, her hands touched my penis after she was touching herself. She then put a condom on with her teeth and again I had a very quick orgasm, within seconds and then showered.
My worries are below.
1. The first experience I am worried about touching my penis with my own hands and the sex workers hands after touching her vagina.
Second experience (today) This one I am a little more worried about. We cuddled and done lots of frottage before the oral. I had some pre cum and she was wet. I fingered her and then masterbated myself. I noticed that she had a large blister or burn mark on her hand and I also have a blister on my hand which was quite red and sore before and after.
1. What are the chances of stds from fingering with red sore blister? And what stds would they be.
2. What are the chances of me catching an sti from oral with condom and with indertive sex (both very quick) and what stds would they be?
3. One was a white Caucasian from Latvia and the 2nd was black Brazilian girl, does this make a difference?
4. Is frottage a risk for stds.
5. Should I get tested before having sex or oral agin with my wife?
6. Can you catch stds from secretions on hands?
Please help as I'm losing my mind and feeling very guilty.
Kind regards
J
The experience 3 weeks ago was general kissing and touching without condom, then the sex worker put a condom on and I inserted my penis in her vagina, I literally had an orgasm with 2 strokes and pulled it out. I showered and left.
The experience today was a little more risky I think, we kissed and touched each other, I tried to keep my pants on but the managed to come off and she gave me a brief hand job while I was fingering her, her hands touched my penis after she was touching herself. She then put a condom on with her teeth and again I had a very quick orgasm, within seconds and then showered.
My worries are below.
1. The first experience I am worried about touching my penis with my own hands and the sex workers hands after touching her vagina.
Second experience (today) This one I am a little more worried about. We cuddled and done lots of frottage before the oral. I had some pre cum and she was wet. I fingered her and then masterbated myself. I noticed that she had a large blister or burn mark on her hand and I also have a blister on my hand which was quite red and sore before and after.
1. What are the chances of stds from fingering with red sore blister? And what stds would they be.
2. What are the chances of me catching an sti from oral with condom and with indertive sex (both very quick) and what stds would they be?
3. One was a white Caucasian from Latvia and the 2nd was black Brazilian girl, does this make a difference?
4. Is frottage a risk for stds.
5. Should I get tested before having sex or oral agin with my wife?
6. Can you catch stds from secretions on hands?
Please help as I'm losing my mind and feeling very guilty.
Kind regards
J
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Hi
1. finger is zero risk
2. oral is zero vaginal low risk for herpes and sypnilis
3.Race doesnot make a difference as sexually transmitted diseases infect all people including men and women of all races.
4. if frontage is unprotected genital rubbing then is a risk for herpes and syphilis
5. for your wifes protection yes test.
6. from the hands no.
1. finger is zero risk
2. oral is zero vaginal low risk for herpes and sypnilis
3.Race doesnot make a difference as sexually transmitted diseases infect all people including men and women of all races.
4. if frontage is unprotected genital rubbing then is a risk for herpes and syphilis
5. for your wifes protection yes test.
6. from the hands no.
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
