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Unprotected Oral

Hello all. I received very brief unprotected oral from a Asian CSW at a massage parlor a little over 3 months ago. Within about 5-7 days there was a 1mm purple, oval shaped spot on my penis head (circumsiced) no pain at all wasn't indented or raised either. It went away within 5 days but seemed to not just dissapear like a bruise would, it was like it healed and got a layer of new skin over it if that makes any sense (chancre?) Well, I "googled" std from oral and since then have been kinda screwed emotionally and obviously anxiety Is high. I've never done something so stupid in my 44 years. I'm married with kids and feels so horrible about what I've done. Anyway, I called my dr and told the story, he called me in a script of Azthromiacin 4 pills totaling 1000 mg (take all at once) and put me on 1000 mg daily of cipro for 2 weeks... (This is before any testing btw) VERY STUPID ON MY PART... so, I waited either 1 or at most two days and then got tested for gonnoria, chlamidia, hsv2, syphillis and HIV. All negative. These test were done about 12 days post exposure. I didn't know about the window period of any stds, so this was pretty much a waste of time and resources. Now, 3.5 months later I've since had 2 full panel tests, 1 at 4 weeks,another at 9 weeks and tested for HIV using Oraquick wich was negative, tested positive for hsv1 though. I have night sweats (starting about two weeks post exposure) when asleep, diarihae, severe fatigue, anxiety level is very high,  skin on my penis and groin area has been very very dry, I have tiny red dots on my penis glans that only appear when I'm erect. Also, my penis glans have changed texture and the color has changed, a bit blotchy I guess and my tongue has had what looks to be like thrush ever since. Weakness in arms, numbness in arms and feet, tingling pins and needles feelings in feet. Also, my bowel movements  haven't been the same since the meds. So, one of my questions is did the 1000 mg of Azthromiacin totally screw up my initial test? The other tests have all ad negative results. I've been concerned about the negative results due to the large amount of Cipro I took, I've read that cipro can delay the symptoms of syphillis. Does that mean it would also mask the test results of all these stds, possibly causing a false negative? I know this is a long post, sorry. I'm worried big time! I had sex with my wife before that initial purple bruise like spot appeared and she's had very irregular stuff going on since. Her period was very heavy last month, then she got sick with a fever and vomiting for 24 hrs. She went to the dr and they said she had a bacterial infection in her urine and put her on Bactrim DS for a week and it cleared up, for now anyway.  THOUGHTS? One more thing, the csw kinda jabbed my anus with her finger when she first started the oral, it was kinda hard and did hurt. I had a hemroid at the time and am worried about HIV because of the  brief "trauma" it caused. I know it's rare to contract HIV from Insertive oral. Should I be worried about HIV? I've never felt this physically Ill in my life!  
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Hiv you were never at risk. If you tested negative for all other std's you should be fine. Antibiotics do not mask test. They cure you of the infections.
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What about taking the azithromiacin? Would it have cleared a std that fast? 2 days after the initial 1000mg is when I tested.
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If your exposure was 3 months ago. And you took the antibiotics then or a few days after. And you test now. All your test will be conclusive. Don't punish yourself thinking of std's. Receiving oral sex is low risk for bacterial std's it is an experience you can walk away from. Even if you do get a std from receiving oral sex. It will be curable. So try to relax. Azithromycin and the cipro if prescribed and taken properly will cure you not mask the infection. So testing will be unneccesary unless you feel symptoms you can test 3-4 weeks after the antibiotics therapy and all your results will be conclusive. Stay safe!
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Thanks, I appreciate it.I am worried about STDs I have already had multiple tests that were negative. I need to take a final HIV test now that I'm past the 12 week window and I'm scared to death about the result I'll get. I couldn't have any more symptoms of HIV. I know people don't discuss symptoms on here but geez it's amazing how I feel and how it seems to be all related. I sure hope I don't have to get on back on here and say so many people are wrong and that I did get HIV from insertive  oral. My life would be over with... thanks for the support.
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Your hiv test will negative. NO ONE HAS EVER GOTTEN HIV BY RECEIVING ORAL SEX! Once you get the results trust it and beleive it. Stay safe!
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I'm praying you are correct. Thanks for the support, I appreciate it. I'll repost when I get my results.
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Always the chance of herpes from oral.
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HSV1 is not an std per se. It is commonly passed on by kissing and 60-70 percent of people have t already not unless you have never been kissed in your life will you never be at risk. HSV 2 here is no risk.
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You will be fine sir. Stay safe!
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Wooohooo! Thank god! Negative HIV test at 14 weeks. :) maybe all this Crazyanxiety misery will go away soon too. I did test positive for HSV1 and might have had this for a long time. My wife gets cold sore several times a year, or I've had it since childhood.  I do have a question though. If I did get HSV1 from this horrible mistake I made  (Insertive oral) would I or could I get a cold sore on my lip or would it just be in the genital area? Or could it occure in either location? I did a cold sore on my lip like 6 weeks maybe even 8 weeks after the exposure and I don't remember getting a cold sore for probably 15 years or maybe more. Would it have occurred sooner if I had not already had HSV1 ? Anyway, thanks for the support you guys provide here.
I appreciate it very much.
Thanks.
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You can post more queries regarding herpes at the herpes forum. But regarding hsv 1. It is not considered a health threat. Because most people have it. Most likely you have had the HSV1 for a long time. Just remember after this trust your test results. Good luck!
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