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Urgent Response From Anyone Please :(

Okay, here goes...im from England, Ive had 20-30 oral performed on me in the past 4 years, last one was around December 2014. Ive had a clamidya test around early 2014, and i got negative...but recently from around december, something clicked in my head, i had an obsession with HIV, when i woke up, i cared about nothing and rarely went out, seeing my dad is a worrier i guess i take after him. i noticed a red skin on top of my penis last year, i got it checked around November 2014, and the doctor said its nothing and it will fade over time. Then the HIV came into my head after researching abit on the NHS website, even though ive only had unprotected vaginal sex for around a minute and other 2 times with a condom which again at most was for 10 minutes, i was concerned about the HIV.

I went to the doctors as my mum thinks i suffer from depression, so we spoke about that to the doctor, but not once did i mention the fact im worried about HIV. Although i went back to the doctor and seen the same guy 2 weeks after, i told him i was worried about HIV, this was around early last month (January) he said the chances are less then 1%. i also asked him ir i should have anything else done regarding any STD's testing, he said no and even though i broke down crying because i was that worried he calmed me down and i had the test done. i rang up a few weeks later and they found nothing.

Early February this month...it continues, i thought to myself if i dont have HIV the killer STD, i wasn't fussed if i had anything else, but this soon changed and the word STI is in my head when i wake up and go to bed, as i haven't got a job or go to college, its the only thing i think about, like honestly i feel so bad about it, not shaking worrying but mentally its destroying me.

I went to the GUM CLINIC the other week and they tested for Clamidya and Gonorrhea with a urine sample, and they come back negative via text. i have to go next month for a blood test, that will test for hepatitis A,B,C HIV again and syphilis...

But i want a full blown STD test, i want herpes, and the others...

Is it necessary? like ive said, even though this sounds rude ill tell you all what ive done sexually, had 20-30 oral performed on me, sucked breast 3-5 times, had vaginial intercourse 3 times, 2 with protected and the other was for less then a minute.

Ive never had a colesore, in my mouth or penis, Ive never had any symptoms either, but even with this said i still aint satisfied and my STD anxiety is becoming horrible, to the point its taken over my life...

Someone help me and reply, what shall i do? what other STI's shall i get tested for? what STI's could i have been infected with? thankyou... chris
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With all those about, who wants sex ever again?
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None
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Such as...chancroid chlamydia cytomegalovirus (CMV) gonorrhea hepatitis A,b and c, human papillionavirus (HPV, genatal warts) intestinal parasites, LGV, molluscum contagiosum, mono, mycoplasma genitalium, NGU, crabs, scabies, syphilis, herpes, trich, unnary Tracy infections and yeast infections.

Out of all them which is all the listed STDs you can possibly get ( male ) which ones should I get tested for?
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Like what?
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Okay thankyou. So it isn't necessary to get tested for everything else if I've got no symptoms?
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Test for what I gave you.
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The problem is, I can't no were get a full STD list, I want to get tested for the full lot of them... And then move on with my life, but such on the NHS website they only talk about around 5-7 STD's, when infact there's a lot more out there, also many websites vary on what I could actually catch via oral sex and the one unprotected when my penis wasn't erect and it was for under a minute... Is there one big list of all the STD's so i can go to the clinic and get tested for the full lot of them, rather then just getting tested for HIV, hepatitis and sythpilis
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NGU is bacteria, nothing major.

I gave you things that are possible from oral sex.
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Whats NGU?

Ive been tested for chlamydia other week as well as Gonorrhea and i got negative, i had HIV test early January and it came back late February and it came back negative also, what else shall i get tested for?
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I will give you testing times:
Gonorrhea, NGU and chlamydia-5 days
Syphilis-6 weeks
Herpes-3 months
No test for HPV in men
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