Hello, I hope I can get help from a professional or someone with solid advice. I received a BJ from a strange male in December, afterwards I washed with soap and water and urinated. A day or two later (soon I know, maybe the soap) I started with irritation and burning in urethra, mostly near tip. I tried to be patient, hoping between the soap and my mind it would go away....no such luck! A few weeks went by and I went to urgent care who did not do testing and just gave me 10 days Bactrim DS. After taking this for a week I still had burning and irritation near penis tip, irritated glans, and bladder soreness with frequency. Did I mention no discharge at all at any point!!! So at this point I go to free clinic, performed swab test....ouch. They did some kind of on the spot test from swab, negative for gonorrhea, said I would hear back if anything from culture, never did, no meds were given. Few more weeks go by, still in pain, wake up with bladder pain, pain in urethra every morning, off and on burning/stinging in urethra though out the day especially after urination. Consult local doctor he prescribes 2 weeks doxycycline 2x per day....minimal if any improvement. Go back to local doctor he checks prostate says it's normal, gives me 1 gram azithromycin, I took this 500mg first day then 250mg the following two days due to what I have read about long term azithromycin (typically 5 days) being better than single dose for mycoplasma genitalium, I'm just reaching in the dark now....minimal to no improvement. A few weeks later I realized I had about 1.25 gram of metronidazole, so I took that as single dose in case anything anaerobic. Thought it might have helped a bit but nope, a week later back to the same. Seems to hurt worse when I sit and pressure is on my bladder which makes it hurt and makes pain in penis worse, also burns more during peeing while pooping. Also, the person I was with stated they got tested and clean, don't know whether to trust this. So,
1. I'm trying to figure out what it might be, gonorrhea, mycoplasma genitalium, trich, or?
2. If gonorrhea, did maybe the test get thrown off by the bactrim or maybe it's not so accurate if no discharge?
3. When can I confidently have sex with someone else without feeling like I am endangering them?
4. Did I catch something that maybe isn't tested for such as m. genitalium or something else and if so what I have taken should have cured it?
5. Why do I still have pain?
p.s. No insurance right now.