Worried about STD/HIV.

[Why321]

I went to a massage spot that I’ve been to serval times and never once did I receive any extra circular activities but  on this particular occasion the masseuse was extra touchy, when I rolled over she began to rub my legs which then worked her way to my penis and proceeded to give me a hand job, I am not to worry about that in particular for contacting stds/hiv. In the middle of the act she decided to press her tongue on the tip of my penis For about 2 seconds max before I stopped her, I just didn’t see it coming or I would of never let her do it. This is were my concerns starts.

1. Should I be worried about HIV
2. Should I be worrried about stds and how soon should I get checked?
3. I immediately came home and showered and wiped my penis with an alcohol pad thinking this might help, should we not put alcohol or peroxide on penis area ?
4. Are there any vitamins or over the counter stuff to take that can help with prevention?

[auntiejessi]

1. Should I be worried about HIV

No, there is no risk for HIV from this. HIV is only a risk from unprotected penetrative vaginal or anal sex.


2. Should I be worrried about stds and how soon should I get checked?

No, a brief lick isn't going to transmit any STDs. You do not need to test.


3. I immediately came home and showered and wiped my penis with an alcohol pad thinking this might help, should we not put alcohol or peroxide on penis area ?

No, this can be irritating to delicate skin, and won't prevent anything. Once you're infected, you're infected.


4. Are there any vitamins or over the counter stuff to take that can help with prevention?

No. If your immune system is healthy (and by healthy we mean not immunocompromised, like with AIDS, undergoing chemo, etc.), you do not need to do anything else.

The only thing you can do to prevent STDs is abstinence, or condom use. Condom use prevents infections like HIV, gonorrhea and chlamydia when having oral sex or penetrative sex, but don't offer full protection against things like herpes, hpv and syphilis.

Again, though, you aren't at any risk from this encounter.  

[Why321]

Thank you, def put my mind at ease. Really appreciate it

[Why321]

One more question sorry. What really worries me is that I don’t know if she lick the opening of my penis, from what it sounds like there a rare chance this could give me any std/hiv correct?

[auntiejessi]

Maybe in theory, you could get an STD from that, but the chances are as good as you getting struck by lightning on the way home from buying the winning lottery ticket.

She would have to have an oral STD. Gonorrhea, NGU, hsv1 and syphilis are the only STDs that you could get from oral sex.

Gonorrhea resides in the throat, and your penis didn't enter her throat. No risk there.

NGU can be caused by normal mouth bacteria entering the urethra, but a 2-second lick wouldn't expose you to enough bacteria to do anything.

To get hsv1 genitally, if you don't already have it orally, you'd have to either be exposed to a sore, which would be on her lips, which didn't touch your penis, or have her lips come into contact with your penis for a fair amount of time, and with friction. None of that happened. If you already have hsv1, you can't get it again in another location.

Syphilis is transmitted by direct contact with a syphilis sore. Syphilis is not that common, so it's unlikely that she had a sore on her tongue. Even then, even of the bacteria would have to get transferred from her to you, and a 2 second lick isn't going to make that happen.

This is a purely theoretical risk, not a practical one.

[Why321]

Thank you!

[Life360_Dave]

1. not at all
2. not at all
3. not at all
4. no

[Why321]

Thank you