I'm really scared of potential STD. I had received oral (she likely had saliva on unprotected areas since i was laying down and she was on top) and had vaginal sex with a condom on at an asian massage parlor in Dallas. She had tattoos and coughed a few times, I should have just stopped but didn't. About 2 weeks after the incident, i got really itchy/burning on my groin and inner thighs. It lasted for ~10 days and i thought it subsided, but its still going on, so for over 3 weeks now . I haven't seen any redness, rash, or ulcers or really anything visible, but its been terribly itchy and i've never had this before. It's been about 5 weeks since the incident and i got STD tested for Herpes (igG test) and HIV. Both tested negative, but i'm worried that its simply too early to tell for Herpes since doctors recommend testing 3 months afer exposure. Is it possible i've contracted Herpes? Syphillis? HPV? This has been the biggest mistake of my life and I dont want to spread this to my wife. I've been abstaining from sex since we dont use condoms.
I've been told it could be jock itch, but i dont see any redness or rash to indicate that. I haven't changed anything up with my routines, no new clothes, or detergents. Why is it so itchy/burning, i'm terrified its Herpes and simply isn't showing up on antibody tests yet. I've refrained from having sex, but I can't keep lying to my wife. Is there risk of passing on the infection at this timeline from me to her? What do i do?