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need peace of mind

okay so i've made a post on this board before and it helped out alot. it proved to me that i actually have std aniexty but i need to make another post cause i feel like i'm going crazy. here is my first post below:
okay i think this is aniexty more then a std but i got to ask. i'm a young man who has only had oral sex with one girl about two, three years ago. one time. that was my first time with a woman and we didn't have intercourse. i've never had vaginal intercourse. i had a regular check up after about a month or two after the experience with the young lady. everything was fine. recently after my really bad break up with my ex girlfriend about a couple of months ago i thought i had herpes after fingering her but it was just a in grown hair and ever since then i've been paranoid about having a std. first i thought i caught something from my ex after just fingering her but my doctor says dont worry about it. i went for another regular check up back in december. i didn't have a std test because i haven't had any type of sex since the oral sex with the young lady and the fingering of my ex girl. but sometimes i do feel a slight tingle feeling in my penis sometimes, but only when i think about it mainly. it doesn't hurt just feels funny. not good or bad. just strange. and sometimes i have a weird feeling when i'm peeing, sometimes. it doesn't hurt or anything and idk if i'm just thinking about it to much. after my recent check up, my blood was okay but my urine turned up with protein in it but my doctor said dont worry cause everything else is fine. plus i dont eat very healthy at all. so i was just wondering do you think this is aniexty and me over reacting or could this be a std? i dont have any signs of a std or anything of that nature. in fact i felt great before my really bad break up. i just want some peace of mind mainly. cause i know aniexty can have a affect on your health more then anything.

now that was my first post. but lately my aniexty has been going CRAZY. i feel like i'm going crazy myself. recently my nuts have been feeling a little weird but its the same feeling i've had the last time i visited the doctor but i'm just very worried. for no reason i know. plus the tingle in my penis is happening again and its intense sometimes like a pinching feeling. only last for like five seconds. only when i intensely think about it. and the first time around i didn't have the std test because i've still only had oral sex with one girl about three years ago now and fingering my ex about a year ago. Thats it. still haven't had vaginal sex. i've made out with a couple of girls and shared cups but thats it. and they didn't seem to have any open sores or anything like that. i'm seeing the doctor the next chance i get but i just need peace of mind. is there any possible way i could have a std or is my aniexty going crazy because of my ocd? please until i see the doctor i need peace of mind. and if i get the blood test and urine test is it worth doing a std test if i'm not having sex at all, and just had oral one time?
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101028 tn?1419603004
talk therapy is just as important as medication. seek out a qualified therapist to work on these issues :)  
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lol i love caffeine. okay but def drink more water, and eat alot more fruits like cranberries, and eat more bread and things like that. thank you so much. you just made my heart go back to normal. i always knew all along it was my aniexty but it lies to you. so thank you so much. still going to the doctor just to make sure everything is okay with the rest of my body but thank you so much. i've gone through every ocd thing possible pretty much. i have hocd (homo ocd, fearing your gay when you are not), fear of getting cancer, diabetes and a bunch of other ****. just need to work on getting control of this aniexty **** without the help of pills or anything like that. especially during the winter when my aniexty/ocd is ten times worst. thank you so much. besides thearpy what else would you recommend for aniexty disorders?
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101028 tn?1419603004
your mind is your own worst enemy sometimes.

the risk of a std from oral is incredibly low. the odds that you contracted a std from oral 3 years ago and never had symptoms until now and the ones you have are so mild, is even lower yet. your provider has done some basic testing and excess protein in the urine can cause irritation. drink plenty of fluids. eat your fruits, veggies and whole grains.  avoid caffeine.  

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so the fact i didn't have a std test doesn't make a difference? like everyone with deep aniexty i know its my aniexty lying to me plus the ocd doesnt make anything better. i will work on making my aniexty better and ****.
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101028 tn?1419603004
you have no reason to think you have a std!!!  You have no reason for any testing either for std's.

talk to a professional about your anxiety so you can develop better coping mechanisms for stress. Life will just get more difficult as you get older so learning how to deal with it better now is certainly in your best interest in the long run :)    worrying about something that wasn't a risk for 3 years is counterproductive to your long term mental and physical health.  

grace
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