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plese help!

im 25 and should know better i slept with someone 10 days ago on saturday early morning. we had protected sex as far as i new...  he did put a condom on i even checked. no oral sex just kissing.
coming up tuesday (3 days later)  i started to get bad stomach cramps ( and my period is not due till the begingin of january so its to far away ) on wednesday i started to get bad constupation nipple pain and flu like symtoms. i thought i got pragnant or something. on friday i started to get very bad discharge of vaginal area. this money i went to ER took pragancy test and some some other test. Gonoreah test came back positive. i dont understand how thats posible since we used protection. anyway i took the meds yesturday but flue like symtoms are not going away still having cold sweat and hot flashes and sweat that started 5-6 days after sex. im so scared i got HIV!  yesturday i went to ge HIV its should be done tomorrow. super scared before this guy i havent slept with anyone close to a yea. super scared that the flu like symtoms are first signs of HIV .please help i need some adtvice. im freaking out! cant stop crying my face is all red and dry i think its from crying and wiping tears but im not sure. if i got gonoreah the protection didnt work so...  i know that even if i get negative tomorrow that dosent mean that i dont have it. i need to wait 3 months. + my symtoms of flu started 5 days after sex is that to early for HIV symtoms? Please help
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Just started to get sore throat . I'm so scared.
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It is possible you may have contracted a seasonal flu illness or garden variety (run of the mill) infection people around you may be experiencing. I can understand you are scared and you really want to kick this incident out of your head but you need to be calm and hopefully be able to get past this. Just try to eat and get your mind off this because you will be driving yourself too hard into a very long flu battle if you keep this up.
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Yes but I have been having flu like symptoms for 5 days now...  It started 5 days after intercourse. And it still going... Cold sweats hot flashes ... Feeling of sick to my stomach and no appetite but this part could be anxiety. My all face is blushed mad pale at the same time. I'm so scared I should have some results tomorrow. But I have no idea . Sadly me and him are not in the same state so I can't even go see him and ask him in person. Not that it would change my bottom line at this point, I'm so scared
Having first hiv symtoms .
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1331558 tn?1317687687
Do not go into assumptions too quickly. Sometimes one's reaction can reveal their stance of the matter. He may have sounded fishy but alternatively, he may be confident he did not do anything wrong. Point is, you can't assume the worst. The best thing to do is to get tested and hope nothing bad comes out of this situation. From a one time exposure, it may or may not be possible for HIV to be transmitted immediately. Most people are clean and do not have HIV in terms of heterosexual exposures.
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I have no idea how I got gonoreah ether that's why I'm wondering if the condom broke or wasn't put on the right way on. I'm so scared that I will have HIV. Finally got hold of the guy. He sounded soooo fishy and didn't even got scared when I said I got gonoreah. I'm afraid he might have hiv .
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I am sorry you are going through with this exposure and I will try to help the best way I can. I cannot seem to understand myself how you got gonorrhea if you had no oral sex and protected vaginal sex. Since you did have protected sex, it is not possible for you to have contracted HIV from this exposure. Symptoms do not determine whether if one had HIV or not. They are vague and there could be other factors as to why you have flu like symptoms.
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