spare me your wisdom

[jack0405]

SITUATION : Gave a guy a bj and was careful to only suck the balls and the trunk. Only ONCE did i give him a deepthroat, just a one time dive and that was it. and we stopped cuz i got scared.

Then i had these abscess in the butt cheeks that secrete puss but die after a month of antibiotics..

FIRST. based on the situation, what are the chances of me giving any STD to that guy? again it was a one time dive /deepthroat and stopped.and then just licking all the sides of the penis and the balls and nothin else.

SECOND. is there any STD that causes large abscess in the buttcheeks only?

THIRD. is it possible to give someone an STD by sucking them, but the infected person (me) did not experience any symptoms to any STDs ?  I've never had any problem in my penis nor in my throat...but is it possible for me to have an STD and transfer it during a blowjob? and what are the chances?

[jack0405]

BTW i googled syphilis sore but it wasn't the case, mine is just one exteremely large abscess before it dies after a  month another large one appears. but only in the left buttocks and nowhere else.

[Vance2335]

I don't know where you can test, that is something you have to find out for yourself.

Check for oral STD is throat swab and blood tests.

Oral gonorrhea rarely shows symptoms.

[jack0405]

there was also this one guy before that that i gave a blowjob and complained he had painful urination 1 week after and said that the doctor said so.. but i did not feel anything or any problem even now. are there asymptomatic types?

[jack0405]

how do i test for this is it necessary to test all STDs? and ummm are regular hospitals able to do this? i mean some need urine, blood, or throat swab (which i have not seen anyone take in here). so is it fine to just get one method of testing.??

[Vance2335]

If you had a oral STD then he had a low risk.

Syphilis, but google syphilis sore

Yes, low risk that you have an oral sex and low risk to transmit one.