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Concerned I have an STD
I’m concerned I may have caught an STD. I’m a 30 year old male. My girlfriend and I took a break from each other 3 weeks ago. During that time I went to a happy ending massage parlor.
At the parlor the masseuse gave me a shower with soap and her bare hands. Then she gave me a massage. After the massage she masturbated me to completion with her hands. I briefly licked and then sucked on her nipple.
After the break with my girlfriend we got back together and had unprotected vaginal sex. After our first time there was a white substance between the head of my penis and and my foreskin. It wasn’t semen. My girlfriend does self lubricate pretty strongly when aroused but this wasn’t like anything I’ve seen with her before. Was a little bit thinner than yogurt and bright white.
For the past 3 weeks I’ve been having some pretty strong night sweats, like soaking wet. And then yesterday I woke up with a bump on my jaw. As the day progressed I realized that it was a swollen lymph node.
Do any of my symptoms sound like they can be an STD?
At the parlor the masseuse gave me a shower with soap and her bare hands. Then she gave me a massage. After the massage she masturbated me to completion with her hands. I briefly licked and then sucked on her nipple.
After the break with my girlfriend we got back together and had unprotected vaginal sex. After our first time there was a white substance between the head of my penis and and my foreskin. It wasn’t semen. My girlfriend does self lubricate pretty strongly when aroused but this wasn’t like anything I’ve seen with her before. Was a little bit thinner than yogurt and bright white.
For the past 3 weeks I’ve been having some pretty strong night sweats, like soaking wet. And then yesterday I woke up with a bump on my jaw. As the day progressed I realized that it was a swollen lymph node.
Do any of my symptoms sound like they can be an STD?
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You had no risk for an STD. Nothing she did to you or you did to her could transmit an STD.
The substance between the head of your penis and your foreskin - could that be smegma? Was there an odor to it? How has your hygiene been? It could also be something called balanitis, which can be caused by a fungal or bacterial infection. If your girlfriend has a yeast infection, perhaps you got it.
Stress can cause night sweats.
If you have a visible lump on your jaw, you need to get that checked. Whatever it is, it's not from an STD, but could indicate something serious. It needs to be checked out.
Don't even worry about the massage encounter - there was no risk from it. Definitely get the white stuff checked out, and absolutely don't wait to get that lump checked.
The substance between the head of your penis and your foreskin - could that be smegma? Was there an odor to it? How has your hygiene been? It could also be something called balanitis, which can be caused by a fungal or bacterial infection. If your girlfriend has a yeast infection, perhaps you got it.
Stress can cause night sweats.
If you have a visible lump on your jaw, you need to get that checked. Whatever it is, it's not from an STD, but could indicate something serious. It needs to be checked out.
Don't even worry about the massage encounter - there was no risk from it. Definitely get the white stuff checked out, and absolutely don't wait to get that lump checked.
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Under my foreskin was completely clean before sex, no smega or balanitis here. I took an STD test today at the doctors office. Want to make sure that if I come up positive for any STDs that I can point the finger at her and it not be my fault.
As far as the lymph node and night sweats go both the doctor and myself are concerned about lymphoma. She put me on an antibiotic.
As far as the lymph node and night sweats go both the doctor and myself are concerned about lymphoma. She put me on an antibiotic.
Lymphoma is a cancer, so that has to be scary. What are you on the antibiotic for?
Who are you pointing the finger at? I'm a little confused here.
Who are you pointing the finger at? I'm a little confused here.
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