Mutual Masturbation Risk - need assurance

[worriedmarriedguy]

I participated in mutual masturbation with two other men yesterday at an Adult Bookstore. Two of us wore condoms and masturbated each other and ourselves and touched each others testicles. The third man joined and received oral sex from the man I was mutually masturbating with at the same time. I know I touched both of their testicles but had no direct skin to skin contact with either. I ended the session by ejaculating with the condom off and left the bookstore washing my hands and taking a shower within an hour and urinating soon after.

I have read the answers to such questions posted to Dr Hook and Dr Handsfield and both say there is no to little risk for such mutual masturbation actives when is comes to HIV, Herpes and STD bacterial and testing was not needed because this was "Mutual Masturbation". Both told others to move on and having sex with the Girl Friend and or Wife was OK.

My indescretion has me worried about having sex with my wife and the whole thing kinda has me a little worried.

Sounds like I can move on with no testing and can continue to have sex with my wife.

I am no sure why I continue to exhibit such behavior and know it has to stop now !!!!!

I would appreciate your thoughts on the matter, the need for HIV & STD testing and continued sex with my wife.

Thanks
Worried Married Guy

[worriedmarriedguy]

Vance,

Got it, that was "the incident" since you answered my last no risk event in December 2014. I need to make better choices between right and wrong.

Thank you again for your patience and your guidance.

Have a good good week and a blessed Easter .

[Vance2335]

READ WHAT I WROTE.

[worriedmarriedguy]

I meant can I have unprotected sex with my wife (vaginal and oral) without risk from the incident I described?

Because the activity involved no risk for HIV or an STD, correct?

Thank you for your patience.

Worried married guy

[Vance2335]

I don't know what you can do with your wife. But you have no STD from the above incident.

[worriedmarriedguy]

Vance,

I know I am showing my anxiety but no risk means I can have unprotected sex with my wife?

I promise last question on the topic.

[Vance2335]

In the anxiety forum

[worriedmarriedguy]

Vance,

Thank you, I appreciate your quick response.

I like the No risk answer, can you point me to which forums deal with Anxiety and Sexual Addiction. I am concerned with my behavior and how it could put me at risk in the future.

So Bottom-line: "No Risk" = unprotected sex with my wife is OK ?

Worried Married Guy

[Vance2335]

No risk