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One night stand unprotected oral, protected vaginal

21 days ago I meet a women at a bar, she performed unprotected oral on me for about 5 mins and we had 2 min protected vaginal sex the condom did slip off during pull out. We both showered immediately after. 14 days post encounter tested for chlamydia, gonorrhea and trich threw urine sample all negative.  I have no symptoms of anything but I do have a girlfriend and I’m petrified I might give her something. What should I test for and when should I test to clear my mind. Thank you
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I have HSV 1 What about testing time for syphilis ?
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Syphilis is uncommon in most developed countries, but you can test for that at 6 weeks.

The average time to see a syphilis sore is 3 weeks - right about where you are now, but it can take up to 90 days. You can test at 6 weeks, though.

Should I be concerned about HPV and do you think it’s safe to resume unprotected sex with my partner ?
HPV is a slight risk from oral and from the protected sex. HPV can take months to show symptoms, if you are going to get them.

There is no test for men and HPV, so it's a wait and see.

Have you been vaccinated for HPV?
No I’m not vaccinated for HPV. When do you think it’s safe to resume unprotected sex with my girlfriend ?
If you accept that there is a slight risk for HPV, then now. HPV can take 2 years to clear from the body, so otherwise, you'd be waiting 2 years, and I don't know how you'd explain that.

Do you regularly have other partners outside of your regular relationship? No judgement at all, that's your business, but if you do, you might want to consider your anxiety around STDs. You've posted in the past about this, too. Your mental health is as important as your physical health.
No I don’t at all this was a huge laps in judgment, I think you are correct about the anxiety !! Thank you
You're welcome. :)  Take care.
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No risk here. Slight risk for chlamydia and gonorrhea from the oral but you tested negative at the right time.

Also risk for HSV and Syph but these are very uncommon from Oral, so I wouldnt worry at  all.
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