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Hi,

Please help me I need information about early HIV test detection and all STD tests.

I am 25 year male.  On 31st Jan 2014, I have an unprotected oral sex with a female sex worker. I never had any kind of sex in my life before that incident. I didn't know about her HIV status. I am feeling hell scared. All day and night I only thought about this, now I got headache due to this. I am feeling so scary I don't know what should I do. Please help me , let me know about these tests, their total expenses and how much time they will take to give accurate results.

Is there any cure if HIV detects on early stages please please help me I will be thankful to you. I did biggest mistake of my life Please help me.

For investigation of the case, I am writing down the complete happening of my oral sex,

My friend went first to the room, he had sex with her. Then I went to the room she is smoking the cigarette after that I kiss(lip to lip) her for about 1 to 2 mins. I lick her nipples and she suck my penis until I get semen discharge. She also rub my penis over the lining of her vagina for about 30-40 seconds max. That's all I did Please help me out please let me know what I should do .

I had gas problem due to upset stomach before that incident , but after few days of oral sex I got lose motions (I ate all three time food from hotel). Then I took flagal 400 mg and within 2 days my stomach went good. I have little hard pain in my head its may be due to unbalanced sleep b/c I thought about HIV so much. I am not helping myself , I don't know how to get rid of this thinking. I read about HIV symptoms diarrhea is one of them so now I am more confuse .
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Not sure what you want...it was low risk. I see no reason to be concerned. Only way to know is testing.
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please help
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26 days were passed, slightly continous burning sensation on penis head is still present. from last two days i am noticing that after completely passing urine a transparent clear thick fliud is come out of penis which is sticky. its just 1 or 2 drops. please advice now what should i do. i am in uae and here it is not possible for me to go gor std test as i have heard that on dignosed with std they will reject the residency visa
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I don't think this is STD related.
Its been nearly 2 and a half weeks since you had oral sex with this person, and I don't think slightly light continuous pain at the penis tip has anything to do with an STD.

On the other hand, since it has been over 2 weeks, you can get tests for Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Ureaplasma, Mycoplasma and Trichomoniasis to see if you actually have a bacterial STD.

For Syphilis, you'd need to wait another month or so if you wanted to do the test, but I don't think its likely it was the case, and it wouldn't manifest itself like this.
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please suggest
my penis tip had slightly light continous pain from yesterday. please suggest what should i do
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my penis tip had slightly light continous pain from yesterday. please suggest what should i do
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As Vance stated, your risk of STD's was very low.

If you are still unsure, the only way to know for sure is to get tested and find out if you have something.
You'll have to wait about a week or two to get the tests done for Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Ureaplasma, Mycoplasma and Trichomoniasis.
For the syphilis test, you will need to wait about 6 weeks to get tested, but you could watch for potential chancre sores on your penis over the next 3 or 4 weeks just in case.

Still, I would like to repeat that  agree with Vance and that your potential exposure to anything was extremely low.
Try not to stress over about it.
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I never examined my penis , after that oral sex I saw the lining of my penis , there is a separate line with the lining of penis under skin, I mean I open the lining and  found a line with the border of penis mouth(penis lining). its like a slight cut over a meat. I don't know is this normal or not. Please advice.

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You had a low risk encounter for gonorrhea, NGU, herpes, syphilis and HPV
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