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Please let me know risk - CSW, oral, saliva, skin contact

Please let me know risk - CSW, oral, saliva, skin contact  (i have already posted on the HIV forum)  - I learned that this episode is no risk for HIV,  but I want to post on here for seeing if there is a risk for other STDs so that I can move on with my life. Please help me out.  Thank you.



Hello - first off, this is a great service and I am greatful for all of the experts who post. I recently "screwed up" and am in mental anguish and don't know what to do. Can you please take this seriously and ***** my HIV and STD risk based on the following facts below.  

Traveled in Mexico - had too much to drink and made a bad decision.

Visited a half strip club with prostitues in back basically - basically a brothel

Went into dingy back apartment - it was really bad

Girls took off bras and had panties on - dry humping - i hadn't jeans on against her panties - just dancing around me and rubbed body on my jeans

Touched and played with breasts with my hands

Shared a straw for a drink but can't remember if I was first to try it. I think so.

Received blow job with a condom on - (oasis) brand name.

Took condom off with my hand and masturbate - worried about this act because there could have been her saliva from the condom that got on to my hand and thus into my penis. This really worries me. It could have been the lubricant but who knows.

Then placed penis in between breasts and finished. What if someone else ejaculated on her chest on that same night? Could HIV be transmitted in such a manner ?

She had baby wipes and I used several to "wash up"

I keep replaying this over and over and need to stop but I can't.  I feel awful. Please do not judge me.  Can you please ***** my risk for HIV and any other STDs based on the facts that i stated above.

I should also start taking anti depressants again for my anxiety issues. That may help me think rationally.

Thank you for your consideration.

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3149845 tn?1506627771
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You cant get NGU with a condom.
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NGU risk would be same as STD. If you at no risk from STD then NGU would not be a concern
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Thank you. Ok I didn't know if NGU was different somehow. I went to clinic and they doc gave me tests for this event and I was surpised that the doc wanted to still test after this no risk activity. Maybe she knew I was extremely anxious or just following protocol. It kind of set me back a bit. I trust this site and the advice I have received. maybe she is extremely cautious. Maybe she is just following protocol ...??? Who knows but it has me in a bad spot now
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From what i know from reading on this site your risk is very low of catching anything. dont worry. anxiety is worse than your risk.
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3149845 tn?1506627771
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Not posssible
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What about when I masturbated and there could have been her saliva mixed with the condon lubricant ?  That could have made contact with my penis. Even though I did not enter her mouth without a condom, Could the saliva outside of her mouth coming in contact with me penis pose a risk in itself for NGU,  or am I in need of calming down?  Sorry to be a pest. Your words have helped me greatly.
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Do you think she was just following protocol?  Please help as I want to put this behind me. Thank you
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3149845 tn?1506627771
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Hi you had zero risk for any std from what you describe.
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Thanks you sir. One more and  will stop with questions.  What about NGU or something caused by bacteria ? Could that happen with the scenario I described ?  Thanks
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Thanks for the reply. I appreciate it. Can anyone else lend their advice to me ?  Thanks so much.
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