Possible to have STI from vaginal fluid in urethra from a handjob?

[christoph2021]

I had protected sex with a lady in a massage parlor. Towards the end she got off of me and starting giving me a handjob with the condom still on. Then she took off the condom quickly and continued the handjob with her vaginal fluids all over her hands for about another minute before I finished. Then wiped everything up, etc.. My concern is the vaginal fluids 100% got into my penis tip/urethra and could cause infection. About 5-6 days later I started feeling irritation while urinating and intermittent discomfort around penis head and/or urethra. I never had stains or a drip but if I squeezed/milked my penis there is a small amount of pus type fluid. Also urinating a lot but very little will come out each instance. Urine appears to be darker than normal and sometimes a touch of cloudiness.

Any insight into the possibility of getting an STI from this event is appreciated. And what could be causing the symptoms I’m having shortly after this event?

[auntiejessi]

No, the friction from the hand job while the condom was still on, the exposure to air, the time, and the lube on the condom would all work to kill anything on her hands, and hands don't transmit STDs. There is not usually enough body fluids on hands to have enough bacteria or virus on them to transmit, and not enough force to propel any germ into your urethra.

You could have a urinary tract infection. STDs don't typically affect the color of urine, nor would they affect the amount of urine you are voiding. Discharge that you see when you squeeze or milk isn't really considered a discharge - that's a normal response to doing that.

You definitely need to get checked by a doctor. In the meantime, drink plenty of water, and lay off the caffeine, juices and alcohol.

If you've had other encounters where you've had unprotected sex or unprotected oral, you should get STD testing. There is something called NGU, which is a non-specific infection in the urethra and can be transmitted during oral sex by bacteria normally found in the mouth. It can also be caused by bacteria that causes strep, the adenovirus which usually causes bronchitis, etc.

[christoph2021]

Thank you for the response. And quick one at that. No I haven’t had any other sexual events besides that.
My main concern was that as she slid off the condom she definitely had lot amount of vaginal fluid on her hand and continued handjob directly on my penis which I would say definitely would cause risk to the urethra opening for those fluids to enter inside.

Am I wrong on my assumption?

Thanks again! Is there anyway to donate to this site for the help you all provide?

[auntiejessi]

It doesn't matter how much fluid she had - and it probably isn't as much as you think - it doesn't change anything.

If you are concerned, testing is easy - you just pee in a cup. Don't urinate for at least an hour before you go, and give the first part of your urine stream. Don't take any antibiotics before testing.

There's no risk here, but you do have something going on, and need to be seen. While you're at the doctor's, you can ask for STD testing if it eases your mind.

Here are some threads that may help you. They are from experts when we had them on our site.


https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Nervous-about-mutual-masturbation/show/2183476

https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Mutual-Masturbation-STD/show/1968429

https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/mutual-masturbation-sti/show/1858544

https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Understanding-the-risks-of-mutual-fingering/show/1516796

https://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV---Prevention/Vaginal-fluid-on-hand-touched-inside-of-condom-and-head-of-penis/show/1119533 - read this thread thoroughly. There is an excellent explanation about why certain activities are not risks, and why others are.

[auntiejessi]

Oh and we don't take donations, but if you'd like to donate to something, find a local STD testing center that offers low-cost or free testing, and donate to them. They always operate on next-to-nothing budgets.