Receiving oral from escort

[Worrysomemore123]

hello I visited a escort a week ago she gave me oral sex with a condom but the condom was too big for me. Will I get any std if I used a condom but it was too big for me?

[Worrysomemore123]

Thanks. No I’m just worried that the condom was too big for me and after finishing I seen bumps on her chin. But I guess I’m safe even if the condom was too wide and big for me. Right?

[auntiejessi]

Yes, I wouldn't freak if I were you. If you had intercourse with a condom that doesn't fit, my answer might be different, but with oral, it's not terribly risky to start with.

[Worrysomemore123]

Thanks how long does it take herpes or syphills to appear and when should I get tested? I’m worried because the condom was too wide and  big for me I’m worried that while she was giving me oral the saliva of her mouth went down the condom and up to my urethra..also she had bumps on her chin and when I asked her about it she said “ those bumps are from when I smoke crack”  does herpes appear on your chin?

[auntiejessi]

Saliva doesn't transmit syphilis or herpes - you need direct contact with a syphilis sore or the actual herpes virus. That's why condoms offer significant protection for oral sex.

It's also very unlikely that her saliva went down the side of the condom and traveled up inside your urethra to infect you with anything, given the nature of oral sex. The saliva would have to sort of have to defy gravity in some way, no matter what position you and she were in. It doesn't work that way.

Herpes can appear on your chin, but it's unlikely. If she smokes crack, that can cause sores on the face. It can do severe damage to the skin.

Really, you had condom protected oral sex. You have very, very little to worry about here. It doesn't even warrant testing.

Syphilis sores can take 3 weeks to 90 days to appear. A herpes sore can appear anywhere from 2-20 days, with an average of 4 days.

I'm not sure if you're worried about a regular partner or something else, but you don't have to worry.

[Worrysomemore123]

Thanks for the reply, her mouth did not make contact with my penis hole I used the a condom but the only thing was the condom was to big for me, also did you mean if her mouth made contact with my penis hole or penis? Thanks

[auntiejessi]

No - the entire penis.

Receiving oral sex can put you at risk for gonorrhea, NGU (an infection in your urethra), syphilis and genital herpes type 1 (ghsv1).

Since her mouth did not come into contact with your penis hole (your urethral opening), you aren't at risk for gonorrhea or NGU.

Syphilis and ghsv1 are spread by direct skin to skin contact, and since the condom doesn't cover the entire area, they can still be transmitted while using condoms. Condoms reduce the risk significantly, though.

To transmit syphilis, she'd have to have an actual syphilis sore in her mouth. Syphilis is pretty uncommon in most places.

Ghsv1 happens when someone who has oral hsv1 (think cold sores, fever blisters) gives oral sex to someone who doesn't have hsv1 already. If you've ever had a cold sore, you have hsv1, and can't get it again genitally.

Always bring your own condoms to make sure that you are properly protected. Chances are very low that you got anything, but it's important to take these steps.

Also, visiting sex workers (or really anyone right now) is not socially distancing and puts you at risk for covid19. Stay home and socially distance. :)

[Life360_Dave]

As long as no part of her mouth made contact with your penis or scrotum area your ok.