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Scare of STD Sympoms and need urgent help and guidence!!!
Hello Friends, I need serious help and I am suffering from extream pain and anxiety and need expert suggestions.
18 days back( 24 June late night) I had below exposure
1- I kissed the neck and chest and also gave thr love byte to csw between neck and chest areas.
2- I rubbed my pennis on her butt lining ( not deep near to anal or other places)
3- In the bathtub with very minimal water, she sat on me( like a child sits on the lap) and rubbed her body on my body ( i am dead scared might have my pennis uthera had touched to her vegina for some period of time). I have some dead white skin as my pennis membrane but no sores of other stds.
4- After shower, While on bed we cuddled each other and kissed ( on neck and chest)again( m not sure during this foreplay if my pennis again touched to her outer vagina or not.
5- Finally she put the condom by usung her hand and I started kissing her again and cuddled her couple of times. However in the mid way of cuddling , I ejacuated inside the condom.
I thought all these activities are just a fun stuffs and not at all risk activities of any stds. But after 1.5 days ( on 26 June) below symptoms had started and
- 26 June - Extream burning on tip of pennis, butt and anal area. Cant sit and sleep but not feeling burnjng sensation while walking. Till now still i am facing this main symptom.
- 28 June - Mild rash for one day on my shoulder.
- Muscle and joint pain - Intermittently
- Burning patches in entire body but temp is not showing more then 37C. ( till now everyday)
- Lump on throat and BMS all thr time.( till now everyday)
My test history
DAY 5 (29 June)
Vdrl - Neg
Hiv 1-2 CMIA test - neg
Claymedia - Neg
Blood test and urine culture - Neg
Day 12 ( 6 July)
Hiv 1-2 antibody screening test - Neg
Vdrl - Neg
Herpes igg and igm - Negative
This burning sesnation and itching testicles and also on pennis tip is driving me crazy.
I am scared that these symptoms are part of ARS and i am
In risk of hiv infection.
Can you please help me and evaluvate my risk for hiv and other stds too.
I am very scared and anxious and i am not able to sleep from
Last 10-15 days.
18 days back( 24 June late night) I had below exposure
1- I kissed the neck and chest and also gave thr love byte to csw between neck and chest areas.
2- I rubbed my pennis on her butt lining ( not deep near to anal or other places)
3- In the bathtub with very minimal water, she sat on me( like a child sits on the lap) and rubbed her body on my body ( i am dead scared might have my pennis uthera had touched to her vegina for some period of time). I have some dead white skin as my pennis membrane but no sores of other stds.
4- After shower, While on bed we cuddled each other and kissed ( on neck and chest)again( m not sure during this foreplay if my pennis again touched to her outer vagina or not.
5- Finally she put the condom by usung her hand and I started kissing her again and cuddled her couple of times. However in the mid way of cuddling , I ejacuated inside the condom.
I thought all these activities are just a fun stuffs and not at all risk activities of any stds. But after 1.5 days ( on 26 June) below symptoms had started and
- 26 June - Extream burning on tip of pennis, butt and anal area. Cant sit and sleep but not feeling burnjng sensation while walking. Till now still i am facing this main symptom.
- 28 June - Mild rash for one day on my shoulder.
- Muscle and joint pain - Intermittently
- Burning patches in entire body but temp is not showing more then 37C. ( till now everyday)
- Lump on throat and BMS all thr time.( till now everyday)
My test history
DAY 5 (29 June)
Vdrl - Neg
Hiv 1-2 CMIA test - neg
Claymedia - Neg
Blood test and urine culture - Neg
Day 12 ( 6 July)
Hiv 1-2 antibody screening test - Neg
Vdrl - Neg
Herpes igg and igm - Negative
This burning sesnation and itching testicles and also on pennis tip is driving me crazy.
I am scared that these symptoms are part of ARS and i am
In risk of hiv infection.
Can you please help me and evaluvate my risk for hiv and other stds too.
I am very scared and anxious and i am not able to sleep from
Last 10-15 days.
As a reminder, your HIV questions were already addressed in the HIV forum, so members here will focus only on whether you had any risk for STDs.
6 Comments
Understand I am looking here for other STDs related risk based on my exposure and past and ongoing symptoms.
There is very little risk here for STDs.
There was no penetration, so you have no risk for gonorrhea and chlamydia. There is a slight risk for herpes, syphilis and HPV since your penis came into contact with her anal area and vaginal area and vulva. However, it doesn't sound like there was a lot of friction, which is required to transmit these.
Your symptoms aren't HPV or syphilis. HPV is painless, and if you get symptoms, they are small white or pink bumps. Syphilis is also painless, and gives you a round, open sore.
If you don't have any sores, it's not herpes, either.
The lump in your throat and rash on your shoulder has nothing to do with this. They are not STD symptoms, and you didn't give oral sex, so you wouldn't have oral symptoms if you did get an STD from this encounter. If you mean burning mouth syndrome by BMS, that's also not a sign of an STD, and is often caused by an allergy or anxiety.
I'd suspect the burning patches on your body are anxiety.
Has a doctor actually examined you? Done any imaging tests, like an ultrasound or CT scan? Done a prostate exam? That's what you need to get done next. I don't think this is an STD, but you do need an exam. A doctor needs to actually look at your penis and genital area.
There was no penetration, so you have no risk for gonorrhea and chlamydia. There is a slight risk for herpes, syphilis and HPV since your penis came into contact with her anal area and vaginal area and vulva. However, it doesn't sound like there was a lot of friction, which is required to transmit these.
Your symptoms aren't HPV or syphilis. HPV is painless, and if you get symptoms, they are small white or pink bumps. Syphilis is also painless, and gives you a round, open sore.
If you don't have any sores, it's not herpes, either.
The lump in your throat and rash on your shoulder has nothing to do with this. They are not STD symptoms, and you didn't give oral sex, so you wouldn't have oral symptoms if you did get an STD from this encounter. If you mean burning mouth syndrome by BMS, that's also not a sign of an STD, and is often caused by an allergy or anxiety.
I'd suspect the burning patches on your body are anxiety.
Has a doctor actually examined you? Done any imaging tests, like an ultrasound or CT scan? Done a prostate exam? That's what you need to get done next. I don't think this is an STD, but you do need an exam. A doctor needs to actually look at your penis and genital area.
Yes I went to number of doctors and ulogist too, acc to them it could be fungle infection ( burning of anal and hips, tip of pennis) which was started just after 36 hours of my nude in the bathtub lap rubbing dance.
The only friction was involved when she sat on my lap and rub her body on me….. mathematically I didnt noticed if my naked stick touched her valva or not but these symptoms are driving me crazy like hell.
Just a last thing i would like to ask
My 12th day results for Syphilis and herpes 1-2 igg and igm is conclusive. I know hiv is not but would like to know do i need to retest for stds again or its within the window period of stds.
The only friction was involved when she sat on my lap and rub her body on me….. mathematically I didnt noticed if my naked stick touched her valva or not but these symptoms are driving me crazy like hell.
Just a last thing i would like to ask
My 12th day results for Syphilis and herpes 1-2 igg and igm is conclusive. I know hiv is not but would like to know do i need to retest for stds again or its within the window period of stds.
No, neither of those are conclusive.
Syphilis is conclusive at 6 weeks, and herpes is conclusive at 12 weeks.
Your HIV is conclusive because you had no risk, as you were told. There is a very minimal risk for syphilis and herpes. Don't do another IgM test - they are worthless, very unreliable. Just do the IgG test.
Syphilis is conclusive at 6 weeks, and herpes is conclusive at 12 weeks.
Your HIV is conclusive because you had no risk, as you were told. There is a very minimal risk for syphilis and herpes. Don't do another IgM test - they are worthless, very unreliable. Just do the IgG test.
Hello Again,
Please dont remove my post , i seriously need some help. Begging you for god sake, pls guide me.
Now on week 4 things are changed alot I got few new changes in my body
In between 21 - 28 days now - One cancer Soar in gums below the tounge ( round red and white from inside, not painful and cleared after 1.5 days)
- Very Minor Headache all day.
- Jaws paining intermittently
- numbness of leg for sometime.
- constant Legs joint paint, calf and upper thigh muscle aches ( persistant from
Last 7-8 days).
I am not sure if my risk is negligible why I am seeing all these ARS symptoms.
Can you please review the body changes with respect to hiv and other std timelines.
Should i go and plan for full std panel on next week ( 35 days~ week 5-6) duo ab/ag test and othese and how much reliable they will be. Pls suggest and guide.
Please dont remove my post , i seriously need some help. Begging you for god sake, pls guide me.
Now on week 4 things are changed alot I got few new changes in my body
In between 21 - 28 days now - One cancer Soar in gums below the tounge ( round red and white from inside, not painful and cleared after 1.5 days)
- Very Minor Headache all day.
- Jaws paining intermittently
- numbness of leg for sometime.
- constant Legs joint paint, calf and upper thigh muscle aches ( persistant from
Last 7-8 days).
I am not sure if my risk is negligible why I am seeing all these ARS symptoms.
Can you please review the body changes with respect to hiv and other std timelines.
Should i go and plan for full std panel on next week ( 35 days~ week 5-6) duo ab/ag test and othese and how much reliable they will be. Pls suggest and guide.
This is not the HIV forum, but those are not ARS symptoms. You also had no HIV risk.
Your symptoms are not STD symptoms. You should see your doctor for them, though. They could be something related to your back, totally unrelated to this event. They could also very easily be anxiety.
Your symptoms are not STD symptoms. You should see your doctor for them, though. They could be something related to your back, totally unrelated to this event. They could also very easily be anxiety.
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
