Hello all. I received very brief unprotected oral from a Asian CSW at a massage parlor a little over 3 months ago. Within about 5-7 days there was a 1mm purple, oval shaped spot on my penis head (circumsiced) no pain at all wasn't indented or raised either. It went away within 5 days but seemed to not just dissapear like a bruise would, it was like it healed and got a layer of new skin over it if that makes any sense (chancre?) Well, I "googled" std from oral and since then have been kinda screwed emotionally and obviously anxiety Is high. I've never done something so stupid in my 44 years. I'm married with kids and feels so horrible about what I've done. Anyway, I called my dr and told the story, he called me in a script of Azthromiacin 4 pills totaling 1000 mg (take all at once) and put me on 1000 mg daily of cipro for 2 weeks... (This is before any testing btw) VERY STUPID ON MY PART... so, I waited either 1 or at most two days and then got tested for gonnoria, chlamidia, hsv2, syphillis and HIV. All negative. These test were done about 12 days post exposure. I didn't know about the window period of any stds, so this was pretty much a waste of time and resources. Now, 3.5 months later I've since had 2 full panel tests, 1 at 4 weeks,another at 9 weeks and tested for HIV using Oraquick wich was negative, tested positive for hsv1 though. I have night sweats (starting about two weeks post exposure) when asleep, diarihae, severe fatigue, anxiety level is very high, skin on my penis and groin area has been very very dry, I have tiny red dots on my penis glans that only appear when I'm erect. Also, my penis glans have changed texture and the color has changed, a bit blotchy I guess and my tongue has had what looks to be like thrush ever since. Weakness in arms, numbness in arms and feet, tingling pins and needles feelings in feet. Also, my bowel movements haven't been the same since the meds. So, one of my questions is did the 1000 mg of Azthromiacin totally screw up my initial test? The other tests have all ad negative results. I've been concerned about the negative results due to the large amount of Cipro I took, I've read that cipro can delay the symptoms of syphillis. Does that mean it would also mask the test results of all these stds, possibly causing a false negative? I know this is a long post, sorry. I'm worried big time! I had sex with my wife before that initial purple bruise like spot appeared and she's had very irregular stuff going on since. Her period was very heavy last month, then she got sick with a fever and vomiting for 24 hrs. She went to the dr and they said she had a bacterial infection in her urine and put her on Bactrim DS for a week and it cleared up, for now anyway. THOUGHTS? One more thing, the csw kinda jabbed my anus with her finger when she first started the oral, it was kinda hard and did hurt. I had a hemroid at the time and am worried about HIV because of the brief "trauma" it caused. I know it's rare to contract HIV from Insertive oral. Should I be worried about HIV? I've never felt this physically Ill in my life!