Spoke with my doctor and when I told him about the infectiveness of cipro, he got upset at me and prescribed me doxycycline and said that this will cure any std I could have including syphilis gono chlamidya ngu and trich
The one you had protected oral and vaginal intercourse with is no risk for most things, very low risk for herpes, HPV and syphilis. I wouldn't worry about it at all.
The one that was unprotected oral - did you give or receive oral, or both?
Tickling her anus with your finger, even with a cut, is no risk for anything. Really. Your mind may keep replaying that, but there is no risk for this. Unless your finger had a huge gaping, bleeding cut (it didn't, or you'd have noticed it before, and she'd have noticed it, and you wouldn't be tickling anyone's anything with it - you'd be at the hospital getting stitches), and then you inserted your bleeding finger into her anus, you aren't at risk for HIV. This did not happen this way.
I haven't any idea why you got cipro. I'm assuming your doctor is treating you for possible gonorrhea, which can happen from unprotected oral, either giving or receiving, but that's no longer the recommended treatment, and hasn't been for years. Treatment for that is a shot.
So receiving unprotected oral sex puts you at risk for syphilis, genital herpes type 1, gonorrhea and NGU. You are not at risk for HIV from receiving (or giving) oral sex.
Syphilis isn't that common, and your partner would have had to have a sore in their mouth to transmit it. You wouldn't see symptoms of this for 10-90 days, but the average is 21 days, and you'd get a sore called a chancre. This doesn't cause burning, pain, discharge, etc. You can test for this at 6 weeks. If you get symptoms, but test negative at 6 weeks, test again at 90 days, and get to the doctor as soon as you see symptoms.
If you don't already have herpes type 1 (think oral sores, like cold sores but not canker sores), then you could get genital herpes type 1 from receiving oral sex. This can happen even if the person performing oral doesn't have a sore, but it's more likely if they do. The time from infection to symptoms is usually 2-12 days, but the average is 4 days. You can test for this now, and then again at 4 months to make sure you don't have it. If you test positive now, it's a pre-existing infection that you had before this encounter. About half the adult population has this, and 90% don’t know it. Ask for a type specific IgG blood test.
You'd see symptoms of gonorrhea at about 2-5 days, and this would usually be a discharge, burning, etc. Some people don't get symptoms. You can test for this as early as 3 days, but 5 days is better. You can have a urine test or a swab test.
NGU is an infection in the urethra that is caused by anything other than gonorrhea (nongonococcal urethritis urethritis, sometimes called NSU, for non-specific). This can be caused by normal mouth bacteria entering the urethra, and the symptoms and testing times are the same as gonorrhea.
Giving oral sex to someone with a penis puts you at risk for oral gonorrhea and syphilis. Syphilis isn't that common, and your partner would have had to have a sore that your mouth came into contact with to transmit it. You would get a sore in your mouth anywhere from 10-90 days, with 21 days being the average. You can test for this at 6 weeks.
Oral gonorrhea doesn't usually have symptoms, but if you got them, it would be a sore, red throat, maybe a fever, maybe swollen glands. If you get symptoms, they usually appear within 7-21 days. You can get a throat swab for this at about 5 days.
There is a risk here, but oral sex is lower risk than intercourse.
Giving oral sex to someone with a vagina is is far lower risk than a penis, but the same risks apply.
You might also want to think about social distancing. Covid-19 is a bigger risk to you than anything you'd get from oral sex or protected sex.