What is my risk?

[Mauritianboy]

Hello

I am from Mauritius and I am a male.  I am straight.  I love sex a lot.  I usually visit massage parlours and brothels to satisfy myself and I am not ashamed at all of it.

I have done this 10 times.  I had protected oral sex, protected vaginal/anal sex and unprotected cunnilingus and deep kissing.  From these acts, what is my STD risk and what I should test for?  (apart herpes.. I'm not concerned with herpes).

And whether I will transmit anything (apart herpes and HPV) to my partner in future when we will have sex to get children (my future wife-no sex with her yet. Only after marriage.)?

Thank you for taking my two questions.

Thank you in advance

[gracefromHHP]

I already answered your question about what to test for.  I can't help you with how to get tested for the others in the country you are in. perhaps seek out a support group in your area to see where you can get the testing at locally if your provider says that herpes igg blood testing isn't offered.

[Mauritianboy]

Bump

[Mauritianboy]

Hi grace. I told my fiancée as per your advice. She said she will accept me if am free from stds.

Iv my test results today.  I'm negative for Hiv, hep b, syphillis, and chlamydia. I always have had protected sex.  No discharge, blister, ulcer or anything ever. I have scruntinised my genitals everyday once a day in shower since two years now.  Never saw anything.

Is there anything else I need to test for to confirm I will not infect my fiancée?  We are to get married soon.

[gracefromHHP]

I think you owe it to your partner to cover your bases.  

should you tell your partner that you've had sexual partners before her? of course you should!!!

[Mauritianboy]

There is no gardasil shots for male in my country.  And I am well over the age barrier, I.e I am 30 years old.  There is no herpes type specific test also.  I have had no lesions on my genitals ever.  I had screening done for HIV and syphilis every 6 month. And they have always been negative.  

So iv to test for other stds also in my routine? And should I tell my fiancée anything whatsoever?

[gracefromHHP]

hpv, herpes and syphilis are your main risks from protected sex.  

have you had your gardasil shots for hpv?

grace

[Mauritianboy]

No condom failure here.  I use lube and durex latex condom.