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please help i think i runied a girls life

i know i am not supposed to post here but no one ever answers in the HPV forum so i am taking my chances, and thank you to anyone who helps me...i rly need it. i have been seeing this girl and we have had unprotected sex a few times now. for the past while i was under the impression that i had genital warts but all the dermatologists and doctors i have seen say they see nothing wart like and what i am showing them is normal skin variants. I have been rly trying hard to come to terms with my obsession and thought i finally got it under control. seeing this girl helped, i never told her about my obsession but it helped me not think about it. I was checking my penis today and i noticed what seems to be alittle skin growth on the shaft. it was not hard rly and it was quite pliable, which isnt a characteristic for warts. i scratched the area abit and unfortunately took away the skin including the area in question, now its just a wound. i know it isnt likely i can scratch off a wart but i saw something that i scratched off. I am now freaking out that it was a wart and that i gave my HPV to this poor girl!!! i cannot imagine living my life knowing i gave this to someone!!! again i am not sure if this was a wart but now i am lost. I do not want to tell her and freak her out so that she dosnt want to see me anymore because it may have been nothing, a simple skin variant like the others have been. what do i do??? plz help me i rly like this girl  
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I will add that it's apparent from your many, many posts (95 of them!) that you are irrationally concerned about many STDs, with little or no perspective on the real risks, both of getting infected and of how serious they are.

There's no point in continuing to ask about these fears. You're only going to get factual responses (Prizefighter's is excellent), but that's all -- and facts alone are not what you need. Care for the underlying psychological issues is the main need here.  Good luck with it.
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Since no one answered your post, I will have the pleasure.  You need to calm down.  It does not sound like a wart. Warts don't come off. Also, you said a lot of doctors examined your penis. The doctors would be able to tell if it's warts. If you want, go to the doctor to get it checked again. Whatever you do, do not tell her until you know for sure. No need in freaking her out. If it does turn out to be warts, tell her and get it taken care of. It is not the end of the world my friend.  
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