Thanks---and your right of course. For what its worth, the forum has actually helped me alot to not panic from unlikely situations and live a healthier lifestyle. I'm actually very educated on this stuff now...I guess it's the "uncommon exceptions" that gets my mind reeling and thinking that the "uncommon" could happen to me. It's not a good place to go in one's mind, so it's great a forum like this exists. You've answered my questions and provided the reassurance I needed. Thanks again.
Thanks for the thanks about the forum.
A "red dot" like you describe does not suggest any STD. Further, no STD can be transmitted by hand job. Thus, there are no worries here about syphilis or any other STD. And syphilis is a rare STD in the US, with only ~20,000 new cases per year in the entire country, two thirds of those in gay men and the rest in small pockets here and there.
Doxycycline is active against syphilis, but it's generally all or nothing. Rather than "altering" a chancre, it would prevent it from ever showing up. The incubation period for syphilis -- from exposure to appearance of the chancre -- is typically 2-3 weeks, sometimes up to 6 weeks. The infection is not transmissible until the chancre appears, certainly not a couple of days after exposure. And no, syphilis cannot resemble what you describe. Based on this exposure and your symptoms, you do not need testing for syphilis or any other STD. Of course, if you remain concerned, see a health care provider in person and follow his or her advice.
You seem to be inordinately worried about STDs despite being at very low risk, based on the 6 or 7 questions you have asked on the forum (mostly in 2006-2007), most or all of which follwed very low risk or zero risk exposures. Within the limits of MedHelp rules (including the one that permits a maximum of 2 questions every 6 months on the professionally moderated forums) you are welcome to continue to return to the forum. But you could have avoided most or all of your posting fees by simply remembering that with uncommon exceptions, if a bare penis (no condom) is not inserted into a vagina, rectum, or mouth, in general there is no STD risk.
Regards-- HHH, MD