How do i respond to crazy accusations

[Shaylamarie1995]

I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 months and we bolth love eachother alot sometimes because of his schizophrenia tho i feel i love him alot more than he loves me...he started accusing me of cheating on him and started getting really gelouse and possesive so i wanted to get rid of anything that would cause him to get gelouse so i litterally ex'd EVERYone out of my life thinking it would soulve the problem ...but nope just left me with nobody to even talk to and him still telling me im being shady he put a spy app on my phone and somehow looks at a map of everywhere i apparantly go...and anytime i go anywhere its wen he sends me ti the store or somwthing any other time i leave. Its because we are fighting and i will either just leave cause i cant handle hearing all the ******** he thinks i do and dont do or will do,try to do E.C.T yeah blah blah you get the point right could be anything with him!!!  :"( anyway
Any other time i leave when we are fighting is because he tells me to pack my **** and get the f**k out!.....
In the first few monthes we were together, wen he would tell me to pack my **** and get out,i would well pack my **** and get out with my kitten and every thing...but as soon as i would leave he would follow me out the door and hop in his truck and drive super slow on the road beside me while i walked down the side walk telling me to hop in he will give me a ride but i would tell him. Whats the point of giving me a ride when i dont even know where im going i dont have nowhere to go i dont have no friends or family nothing...but yeah now he dosnt seem so upset wen i leave he just gets really mad. I just dont know how to respond to any of this ...i sat down with him a couple times tho and had a good long talk and he told me he really loves me so much and he knows i love him more than any thing and that im not really shady but he says he jist cant help it wen he thinks like that he'll get paraniod about something then he cant get it out of his head and then he starts thinkong of a bunch of crazy **** and it just dosnt make sence atall but then he'll just explode and trust me u dont wanna be there wen he explodes...at one point i had him willing to start seeing a doctor or counsellor as long as i went with him and i promised him i would id love to ...but then after he called and made an appointment he came and tols me they r probably going to admitt him to a phsyc ward ...i was shocked i broke down crying basically and told him baby thats not what i was trying to do i would never do that to you oh my god...i didnt know they could do that...

[Shaylamarie1995]

I will bring up the idea maybe about seeing a doctor i will have to make sure he WANTS to do that i would nevver force it on him....its just a difficult topic to bring up :(

[drifter0213]

ok there are risks from the meds because finding the right mix maybe be difficult and they will have to constantly check your blood lipids k

[drifter0213]

his I meant

[drifter0213]

which means needles too

[drifter0213]

my cholesteral and my triglyserides always elevated which means diet 1300 cal /Day rough yeah

[drifter0213]

I quoted 1300 cal because I'm a small man 161 lbs.

[Shaylamarie1995]

So how long will he hav to go away for?... Thankyou so much !!:)

[drifter0213]

depends on the severity of the illness(or illnesses) that he displays remember SZ is difficult to diagnosis

[drifter0213]

drink plenty of water will minimize side effects k

[drifter0213]

yes they need to watch him for improvements/ suicide/ overdoses/ psychotic tendencies / harm others I went to UBH in elpasotx first time three weeks new medicine 10 days I'm doing great now but report any side effects immediately I didn't say anything now I have permanent side effects tremors (TD) etc you can contact me for progress ok my friend:) <3

[Shaylamarie1995]

Okay so basically if he dosnt like thinking this way and stressing himself out like he says...cause he says i know sometimes my thoughts are way out in left feild and i over analyse everything...so if he wants it to stop he will need to see a doctor for meds...but what he is worried about is that if he tells a doctor about his paranoia e.c.t that he will end up getting admitted...is that true

[drifter0213]

people with SZ can not be happy or sad its called flat- affect I have it and yeah its hard to date also my girl-friends get upset cuz women please men so they want to know what you want and like IDK sometimes nor can I be impressed in reactions to certain "fun things"

[drifter0213]

being paranoid he needs life long meds like me I realized early in life no I was 36 when I found out ten years of SZ it doesn't go away you have it for life SZ is a form of permanent psychosis