My bf and I have been together for 6 months and current live together. We moved in together after 3 months of dating. In the beginning, sex was great (of course). But it got to a point where he wouldn't be able to keep an erection. Sometimes he would cry and say he is afraid I would leave him. I comforted him and told him I wouldn't. The sex was a bonus. As long as he still showed me affection and made me feel loved, I wasn't going anywhere. He was able to finish with me sometimes but he lost his erection more times than he kept it.
Here recently, sex has become scarce and affection too. I found out that he has been masturbating and watching porn. He says sometimes he can't wait for me. This didn't make sense to me because I am very sexual. If I could, I would have sex with him at least 3x a day! In fact, before I found out about the masturbating, I talked to him about foods I read that can help reduce my sexual urges so he didn't feel pressured and I don't get frustrated. He told me not to because that was one of the things he loved about me... my sexuality.
I'm so confused on what to do. I feel unattractive and unwanted by him. I'm starting to feel very lonely because not only is the sex non existent, now his affection is dwindling down. When I tried to talk to him, he got defensive and cold. And all I said was that I felt sexually unattractive to him. He said all guys do what he's doing and if anyone says they don't they are lying.
What do I do? Please help me understand what to do. I love him and want to try to make this work. He says he's in love with me but I'm starting to feel otherwise.