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Are you cicumcised, practice masturbation daily and still enjoy sex with a latex condom?

I'm gearing this question towards circumcised men. Uncircumcised men need not give an opinion because you cannot relate to the issue. I'm a 30 year old male who was circumcised at birth and I have been masturbating my entire life. My entire life I could never enjoy sex with a (latex, non-latex, polyurethane) condom, no matter how thin it is. The fact is I don't feel any sensation from the vagina the entire time. Within 2 minutes I start to go down. In other words, I feel like I'm just going in and out of the vagina but not enjoying the feeling.

As I'm older now and have been giving the problem some deep thought, I believe that all the masturbation I done throughout my life has speed up the desensitizing process that they say circumcised men will go thru as they age. Could it be possible that all this rubbin the penis has deminish the nerves and this is why I have a hard time feeling sensation thru a condom???? I had this problem since I was 17 and I never caught onto where the problem was originating from.

Therefore, I say this. I believe us circumcised men should not masturbate. It ruins our sex lives. I am in the process of quitting masturbation. So far, it's been almost 2 weeks. I do feel proud of myself. I also believe if I leave my penis alone, eventually the sensation in penis will increase and I can start enjoying some type of sensation with the latex condom.

So, if you disagree with this, I assume you are a male in his 30's (who has been circumcised) for a long time, you also masturbate DAILY, and you can still enjoy sex with a latex condom. If this is you, I would like your input on this issue.
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139792 tn?1498585650
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I will read the whole thread again, and the mechanism of ejaculation and the relaveant topics. then I will be able to give you proper answer.As our few friends in Japan, we are perturbed.I will take some time to reply.
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When doing sex we are expecting some ejaculation so how do we explain the fact that there is no sensation which leads to ejaculation? This is what is happening so it means after circumcision no sensation when using a condom.
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139792 tn?1498585650
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In sex, ever one feels different. Natural intercourse( without condone) is definitely better. It does not mean that you cannot get any pleasure with condom. If there is a fear of pregnancy or std, You are likely to like less with condom. You consider this as necessary evil.
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14114708 tn?1432965533
This is true I mustarbate a lot and I also feel no sensation with a latex condom and I feel as if my Penis is being suffocated so I only go without it and then I could feel what I'm doing
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what kind of latex condoms do you use and do you use any enhancements with them or the condom alone? example, do you do anything extra like put lube inside the condom? is he using a thin tight condom or a large size?

also, why would he masturbate once a day if he's married and you still have sex 1-2 times per DAY as you stated... that doesn't sound right!
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Yes he's circed. He masterbates at least once a day (and yes we still have sex 1-2 times per DAY).
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not true!
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THE point is circumcised has NOTHING TO DO WITH IT!!!! being uncircumcised you don't have any better sensation!!!!!!!!!!!
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gymdandee proves my point so far. he's circumcised, been masturbating all his life and claims he can't feel the sensation thru a latex condom.
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NO!! how can you feel the sensation. when you wear a glove can you feel if something is hot or cold?  It's not a tough question and
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you still didn't answer if you can feel the sensation thru a latex condom nor stated you can reach ejaculation thru a latex condom as well...

to penswriter, you did not mention if your husband is circumcised and if he is, how often does he masturbates.

Thanks.
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I'm not a man but I'm married to one. He masterbates and we use latex condoms....he has had absolutely no issues with feeling sensations. Sure he prefers not to use them but I don't trust b/c 100% so we do and never had an issue.
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No you're wrong!! men who aren't circumcised when they have an erection the foreskin is retracted as if they were circumcised! I don't know of any man that enjoys wearing a  condom
have you tried having plenty of foreplay before sex?
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The only I liked were skin condoms too.  But me and you both know skin condoms don't protect us from std's.

But how was the sex when you used a latex condom? You just said you never like condoms (assuming you're addressing latex condoms). Did you reach climax or never could? Did you always lose erection during the sex act because lack of sensation?

So far you're proving to me my point that men who are circumcised should not masturbate because over the years you will desensitize the nerves in your penis and THEREFORE YOU WON'T FEEL ANY SENSATION THRU A LATEX CONDOM.
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I'm 65 and circumcised I started to masturbate at about 8 or 9 years of age I have sex or masturbate just about every day at least 5-6 days a week I never liked condoms the best ones I enjoyed were the skins. masturbating has nothing to do with your problem!! it's the   condoms.
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