Body image, you can work on, and it might solve the other issue as well, since exercise gives people an upbeat attitude and something fun to do. Get to a gym, dance club or exercise class, and just keep an open mind. You might meet some men or some nice women who introduce you to their brothers, co-workers or even their ex's. :) If you are still in the church, go to a physical activity group through your church. I assume you are saying your desired partner is male? I'll warn that your male peers (age-wise) who are single are often on the hunt for a woman about a decade younger than themselves (or even younger than that if they are rich). But if you just want to meet a nice guy, you'll probably be able to. And if you're open to dating guys a decade older than yourself, you will look good to them. :) 76 is not decrepit these days, some guys really take care of themselves, and you could attract attention if you're cheerful, active and enjoying your newfound frisky take on life.