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I have read a lot of these questions from women
about painful sex and swelling and complications
Afterward.I am 67 so many of your problems can be
Solved by educating your lover.Tell him.To be gentle,give you time to lubricate if need be use lubricate.Oral sex to should be easy lick don't suck,the cliterous and opening of your bladder are too sensitive to be stimulated directly.A good lover is a gentle lover.There are over the counter vaginal lubricate that last several days.So many men think making love rough like king Kong makes them more of a man.Your pain or discomfort should be mild.Educate yourself and then him.A regular Dr visit once a year can catch any problems early.My information from my lifetime.
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Honeygirl777, I'm giving you a thumbs up because you make a lot of sense! I especially liked what you said about the need to educate yourself, and see a doctor once a year. It's always a good idea to find out if there are other reasons, such as health issues (STI/STD's, endometriosis, or pelvic inflammatory disease, etc.) that are causing painful intercourse... :)
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