The correct answer is so obvious. NO
I think its ok as long as the other partner is not being left out intentionally ...ie.one partner is mad at the other for not wanting to fool around and is using it as to say **** u ill masterbate watching porn ...i dont need you ..type of sernario. !!
I made a point of making videos WITH my husband so he could use those instead of waching the ****** on the internet. Today I discovered that it doesn't matter. He's going to do it anyway and I'll be honest with you, it feels like cheating.
Two years ago i read a study that watching porn while having sex is a sexual dysfunction that affects many men born in the 1990ies, The reason was simple, they grew up with easy access to internet porn, when they entered adulthood the habit had become second nature so they were not able to have normal sex with real girls, when the porn was missing they were unable to ejaculate and some were unable to achieve and maintain an erection.
Porn is not cheating, those guys do it because its the only way they are able to have sex.
losingmymind,
i totally agree with you, my fiance' has been watching porn almost daily even after i told him it hurt me. He said he stopped after i told him that but I know he hasn't which hurt me more because I know he's lying to me now. I also know hes hiding in the bathroom with me home and masturbating. I am a VERY SEXUAL person who loves every aspect of intimacy and sex. I never turn it down, love snuggling and trying new things. I don;t understand the need if I;m right there and willing.
He has all the classic symptoms of a Porn Addict (If you haven't read about them look it up) he's withdrawn from me , less sex and touching (with me) its all about HIM and I have to initiate.
Do I think its cheating YES. Sex and Intimacy should be with your significant other, if you are seeking it elsewhere then why be in a relationship? Get out instead of hurting someone else!
solostandupset
My husband works on the road and we only see each other a week out of each month. He looks at porn and masturbates to it but is also very open abt it. I'm not mad abt it. I'd rather him do that than actually cheat on me.