Discomfort during intercourse for a man

[ZarafFaraz]

I'm a 25 year old male who got married 10 months ago.  I've never had any sexual experience before, and neither has my wife.  The problem I'm having is that intercourse is very uncomfortable for me.  When I put my penis inside my wife's vagina, it seems like I'm being overstimulated to the point where it almost hurts.  

I've tried having her close her legs and rubbing my penis between her legs with lubrication, and I can easily climax from that, and it feels good.  So thankfully, my problem isn't an inability to derive pleasure from some sort of sexual contact.

I tried using a condom and found that I do not feel discomfort with it, but not much pleasure either.  I have to force myself to reach orgasm rather than hold myself back.  I've found that the condoms tend to break quite easily too, and I can tell since discomfort begins again.

I do not have any STDs, sores, or any kind of disease, but this is really quite frustrating, and it certainly isn't a "psychological" thing, since both my wife and I are well part the psychological shyness and embarrassment part.

Are there other such cases like this, and if so, what is the cause and are there any solutions?

Thanks for any help!

[ZarafFaraz]

I've used plenty of lubrication, and I've put the condom on properly too.  I've also made she that she was wet enough, and it seems to be the case.

[Pcogale]

The fact that the condom is breaking suggests it's not on properly or there is a lack of lubrication.

In fact your whole problem may be a lubrication issue if your wife isn't 'wet' enough as you are having intercourse.  A bit of water based lubricant may do wonders.