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Do I lost my virginity or not?

I usually have oral or anal sex.yesterday, when my bf and I had sex, accidentally I think he pushed it in the vagina but I'm not sure because I didn't bleed but the next day, i had sort of a brown discharge and I will have my period within a week, so Idk if this means that I lost virginity or not
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You cant really know and it really doesnt matter,  virginity is just a social construct  and whether he did or didnt accidently  push it inside your vagina doesnt matter,  you wont change or anything.  Maybe you can ask him?  If not no big deal do it when youre ready  you decide when you lose your virginity, even if you did have sex.  I will mention it isnt good to go from anal to vaginal sex for hygiene  purposes,  and that's what the discharge might be,  Id go make sure you didnt get anything from that.  If you do in the future just wear a condom after anal.  
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Virginity is about 'abstaining from sex' not 'abstaining for virginal sex'  you lost your virginity when you had sex the first time, anal/vaginal, whatever.
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