Im new to this forum and wanted to see if any of you could help me out with this issue. So Im 20 and never noticed until a few months ago that my downward curved penis may be an issue during sex. My penis gets erect with no problem but when its erect it curved downward; its been like this as long as I can remember. Also, my erections don't push my penis all the way up, my penis kind of juts gets a little lower than horizontal with the ground. So its basically a penis that curves down and doesn't really point all the way up. A few months ago I tried to have sex for the first time and it didnt go well. Basically my penis just couldnt go in because of the curve. When I would try to point my penis up enough to go in I would lose the erection (combination of nerves and just the fact that it doesn't go that far up naturally). It was a very short-lived experience because it just didnt work. I saw an on-campus doctor about it and he said that basically I cant do missionary and have to try doggystyle or variations of that. Now I know he had good intentions but girls of course aren't always going to want to do doggystyle and for a one-night stand that's kind of out there and unrealistic.
My question is, is surgery something that I should look into? Ive researched it and it is expensive, but if there is no other way that I can just have regular, enjoyable sex with a girl then I don't know what else to do. Someone please help! I really need to figure this out, because its really starting to affect me mentally. I'm on the brink of considering telling my parents/scheduling an appointment with a urologist to get more help. Thanks in advance for any help/advice.