Okay, so I had sex for the first time about 3 weeks ago. It hurt a bit at first, although I felt underlying pleasure. It just seemed very tense because my vagina is really tight and it was my first time. We took it slowly but he wasn't able to go all the way in because it was too tight and I was uncomfortable. He wore a condom so that probably added to the discomfort as well. A couple nights later we decided to do it again. This time, he went in all the way. He started to faster and it began to hurt really badly after a little while. I didn't say anything at first because I figured it was probably normal and that it would go away. After he finished, he tried to finger me so that I could finish but the pain was too bad for me to handle and I almost cried because of it.
I figured the pain was likely due to a friction burn or maybe a small tear from going too hard too fast and not being properly lubricated. However, it's been 3 weeks since we've had sex and every time we try to, the pain hurts too much. It's concentrated in one area by the opening of my vagina and he can get the tip in a little bit, but as he goes farther it's a very sharp pain. It feels like someone is scraping the inside of my vagina. Does anyone know what could be causing this??