That is a cleaver idea sam but the only problem is she would fix it her self, she's good at fixing things like that, besides it's the plug in kind.
I agree, rekindling the romance does need to be worked on. Just think what it would be like if women where able to get in the mood as quickly as men.....Hmmmm....then again that would take the challenge out of it.
I never thought of her feeling undesirable, I will pay more attention to that.
Thank you all
Posibley she feels undesirable. Try talking it out. Being younger she might feel that you will get a younger woman to take her place and is preparing herself for rejection.
This may be sub concious. Try a bit of romance not just sex.
You are right. There is no problem with masturbation - unless it starts interfering with your relationship. I wouldn't desolder her vibrator... though that is a clever idea SeriousSam :-) But the two of you need to talk open and honestly about what is going on and how you feel about it. After 25 years of marriage, the two of you might need to work on rekindling some of the romance. If you don't feel like the two of you can talk openly with each other.. couples counseling is a good idea.
All the best..
Steal the batterries and or try the vibrating penis rings with her! Lol.
probably not a good idea but I would at least desolder the connection for the batteries @ least.
You guys need to talk about what makes her and you happy. Maybe therapy maybe just honest conversation.