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I can't Masturbate, but I would Really Like to.

So, to be as blunt as possible. I'm a dude, I want to masturbate, but the way I learned what it is made me despise it and view it as disgusting. That ideology is partially still in my head, and I can't ignore it. Even if I manage to force it, I only feel the pressure. Additionally, pornography in any form just grosses me out.
So, my question is
Sorry, to be a bother, but I'd greatly appreciate an answer.
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Whoops, didn't quite finish it: My question is what do I do to feel pleasure and be arroused?
Also, if it means anything, I just turned 14.
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http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatomyresponse/ht/masturbatemen.htm
Visit the above link and read the content.Read it carefully and learn the methods.
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I've consulted this guide before, and the problem is, I can't find anything to arrouse me, and I never feel any pleasure when I try.
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I do not see any question here. Also, it would be helpful if we knew your gender and age. Masturbation is a natural and healthy means of sexual release.
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Apologies, I didn't quite finish the post. In my first reply I finished it, but I'll state it again. I just turned 14, and I'm male. My question is how to become arroused and feel pleasure. Also a minor question would be how to get the idea that society taught me of self-pleasure being taboo out of my head.
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Some more aditional information to add knto my original reply that may help is that I've attempted twice, with pornogrpahy and without.
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If you have read the link I have sent, and if you cannot get any clue about arousal,forget masturbation for the time being. It will come to you  without efforts.Or you can consult a medicos.
139792 tn?1498585650
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If you watch porno just for arousal, it would be okay. But if you get habituated to watch every time you masturbate, you may face bigger problem in future. So use sparingly .It will be the best if you get arousal naturally.Habit of watching porno could ruin one's life when they are married and can't do intercourse with their wives.
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Alright. I guess I'll just have to wait. Thank you for your assistance.
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