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Is he gay?
Hi everyone. Me and my boyfriend we are exploring on sex, we love trying new things etc. For the last 2 months from time to time i am doing anal to him mostly when we are having drunk sex. When we spoke after the first time about it, he told me that he didnt had this experience before, and he likes the idea of that his girl is doing this to him. He told me also i can not imagine a guy doing this, that idea doesn’t make me excited etc, things like this. Then 3 days ago i discovered my boyfriend’s search history on his phone. For more than 7 months we are together and 5 months we live together. And on the history, he is watching shemale porn for more than 8 months. When i saw it first, i was shocked and disgusted about it. We are working almost the same hours. Sometimes he is finishing 2 hours earlier than me. Last friday when i came home, he told me that he became so hard when he was waiting for me to come home, and i asked him why, he told me ‘because i was thinking about you’
Next day when he went to work, i looked at his search history and i saw many gay and shemale porn. The day after when i was at work, he only wAtched gay porn. In the beginning i was thinking maybe it is only from curiosity, bit when i looked for the previous weeks, I’ve seen that he watched gay porn many times and not only 1 video, many of them. I dont know if i should talk to him about this or how should i talk about it.
Next day when he went to work, i looked at his search history and i saw many gay and shemale porn. The day after when i was at work, he only wAtched gay porn. In the beginning i was thinking maybe it is only from curiosity, bit when i looked for the previous weeks, I’ve seen that he watched gay porn many times and not only 1 video, many of them. I dont know if i should talk to him about this or how should i talk about it.
I don't think watching gay porn makes someone gay. He's possibly fantasizing and the taboo to something he'd never do in real life is exciting to him. If you want to know for sure, yes, talk to him. He might not be thrilled that you went through his phone though. Some people do fantasize about things they would never do. Or maybe he would . . . so, I guess to know, you have to address the question with him. good luck and tell us how it goes.
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Yes, it is a good suggestion forwarded by specialmom.You may refer it as a subject of discussion only and not point out about the download you have seen.
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