Loss Of Sexual Desire

[DraculsBambi]

Hello,
I have lost pretty much all of my sexual desire. I had my son three months ago, and right after I had him, all I wanted WAS sex.... Well, now I don't want to have intercourse at all. No matter how hard my fiance tries to get me 'in the mood', I just don't want to. I can rarely snuggle up to him without him getting an erection. And i'm starting to find it kind of annoying and aggravating. I don't know what to do anymore. He thinks intercourse is important, and I sort of feel like it's more of a chore now than it is a desire. Plus, even when we are intimate, he doesn't last very long. He goes at his own pace and is pretty much only concerned about his own climax. So after he ejaculates, he pretty much just goes soft and I don't get the chance to climax. I need advice. I'm not stressed out, the only thing that's wrong is that I'm in pain. And even when i'm not in pain, I don't have a sexual desire.


Thanks
-Brittany

[epicdemic]

I'm not sure if this would fix the problem at all, but just a general note:
If you want him to last longer, a great option is to use the decreased sensitivity condoms for men. My boyfriend and I used the Trojan Extended Pleasure condoms and they worked very well. If you leave them on for too long, the penis will begin to get a little bit numb, and you want to try to avoid getting to that point because it can be uncomfortable for the man.

[DraculsBambi]

So many of us women are. The sad part is that I don't even want to have any desire! I told him that if he wants sex that bad, to go find someone else. I'm to the point to where I just don't care anymore.. And to be.completely honest, i'm not happy with him. I'm not happy with myself, or my life. Maybe that's the problem..

[bibiboo]

its as if I wrote this post myself. . Im in the same exact boat as you.