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Masturbating the wrong way

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So basically I'm now 23 and have been masturbating frequently since I was 15 or so. I will usually masturbate really quickly to just get to the climax if I'm not into the porn I'm watching. I don't even use my whole hand on my penis I will just go up and down on the ring under the glans really quickly, ignoring the shaft ( i have quite a small penis and sometimes it's difficult to get a hard penis if I don't enjoy the porn). To be honest most of the time it doesn't feel good, even the climax - though this might be because I'm not into the porn I'm watching or I'm depressed.

Today I tried masturbating the shaft as well and the feeling was amazing + plus I was really enjoying the porn, much better than just concentrating on the glans ring. To be honest I didn't realise how much better using the shaft could be until now because I always hurried to get to the climax and most of of the time only stimulating the glans ring gave me no good feeling at all, even when cuming.

I always blamed this on depression or not being into the porn - never on my method of stimulating my penis.

Could only stimulating the glans ring for so many years damage that part of my penis somehow?
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Plenty of people used to believe that any masturbation would make you go blind and give you hairy palms.  Don't believe everything you read on the internet, especially on male enhancement sites.  Better yet, talk to your doctor about it.
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Hi Js, Google pegym, on there have a look at the ED forum, see the amount of guys who are now trying to give up masturbating to porn, and read around there are loads of guys on there with very big problems from porn and masturbating to porn, its a very deadly game your playing, and could give ED with some very long term effects.
Do yourself some good and stop now.
Good Luck
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do what feels good!! what you like! there are many ways a man and a women can masturbate ... so whatever feels right isn't wrong
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If it hasn't been causing you pain, then do whatever feels good.  It's hard to damage your penis and simply not notice--if you're rubbing too much, it will get irritated and hurt.  Watching porn and masturbating are both fine, as long as you don't feel like they're taking over your life.

If you have a problem with depression, you should get it treated, with therapy, meds, or both.  Some meds have sexual side effects, but that's really a bridge to cross when you come to it.
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Hi J, Look first you need to drop the porn, and masturbating to it will lead to porn induced ED, When you masturbate, this needs to be done with a featherlight touch along the whole shaft, its to mimic the vagina, you don't need to do it at a hundred miles an hour, as you cant have sex at that speed.
Just take it slow, enjoy the moment, try different ways, standing, laying, sitting, get out in the fresh air and do it and try it in the bath.
But for your own good give up the porn, this will end up shutting down you sexual receptors, with this your sex life.
Good Luck
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I seriously doubt it.  People do all sorts of crazy masturbations, and their sex life in the future is fine.  See a doctor if you feel the need, tho.  Blessings - Blu
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