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1643709 tn?1300924879

Never orgasmed

I am turning 22 and i have never had an orgasm. Not even with myself. I have tried to 'play' with myself..and the only time i get anything is when i'm playing with the clitoris. I assume it's an orgasm i get afterwards..
But ever ytime i have had intercourse or i have tried to play with myself inner wise..not one thing. I might feel it for a few seconds during intercourse but that's it.
I have tried to play with myself but it's just so 'boring'. nothing seems to ever happen.
I figure maybe there is something wrong. Are my ... walls too thick or something? I don't even feel much pleasure during intercourse.
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Yeah some girls cant get one easily from intercourse. What sometimes works for those types is for him to get fully inside you so he is touching your clitrous when he thrusts, and have him kinda shimmy around a bit each thrust so your clit gets stimulated. There needs to be some pressure on that area, so experiment with different positions.

But I suggest you have him perform oral on you until you have an orgasm first. Thats what we do, works great. Then there is no pressure during intercourse. Just keep your hygiene up so he enjoys this.
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some people dont feel pleasure
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You should try a tantric erotic massage.  This is where you are naked and have an all over body massage which ends in a genital massage.  An experienced Tantric masseuse (woman) will totally relax you and your mind will be completely empty.  You will be in such a relaxed state of mind and body that you will totally let go and I know if the masseuse is good you will experience multiple orgasms.
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When it comes to have an orgasm, most women can't have one from vaginal intervourse or vaginal stimulation. Most women who can have one do so from clitorial stimulation. So no there is nothing wrong with you.

There are women who can't have one at all. So even if you can't there is nothing wrong with you.
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