I'm not sure how to solve the problem with penetration. When we are making sex, when I'm trying to penetrate her, she is pushing back or pressing legs against me, so I can't enter. I assume its because of fear and pain (she is a virgin). I have tried different positions, using more or less water lubricant; but no effect. Next tome I consider first using fingers to slowly increase the size of penetration: from one finger, two fingers. It was our 2nd attempt. I'm comforting her all the time, trying to make her relax...but nothing works....
I would be very grateful for any time how to solve this problem.